Well, I've been having highs on my CBFM for 4 days now, probably just getting used to my cycle but we've been bding every other day anyway. Just waiting for my peak which will probably come later in the week I think. Had some watery CM yesterday so may mean the start of it. Have been using OPKs too because I have a tonne left and I'm addicted and they're all very clearly negative so far!

How about you Farie? Glad he bought you the top anyway!

Thanks everyone for making me feel welcome! It can be a lonely old journey...I just feel sad this month and can't seem to shake it off. Almost worse than MC. Stupid really!

I try to spot O signs, but never seem to manage. Done 2 OPK's so far this month and both neg. If I get O pains I wouldn't be able to tell as I also have IBS so get pretty sore most days anyway!!! I'm also dry as the Sahara most of the time so not much CM to go by!!!!!!!! DH and I have just decided to BD as much as is humanly possible whilst still being able to walk and work!!!! Thank the heavens for preseed that's all I can say

I'm usually more positive...sorry if I've turned up at this little party and killed the fun!!!! Just can't seem to snap out of it at the moment.

Anyone had a pos OPK yet? Please give me some good news as I hate being so blurrrrrrrrr!!!

Also...does anyone know how long each month your OPK would show as pos? I have absolutely no idea if the test would show pos for just a few hours, or if it would be a few days. This is my first month of using them.

Thanks!!! And good luck everyone!!!

Hi Schmelly, sorry you're having a tough time of it at the moment. You don't need to apologise to us, we know how you feel!

I've been using the CBFM this month, no peak so far and no positive opk yet either so don't despair! I only used opks for the first time last month and I didn't get a positive at all so I'm not sure how long it lasts! Some girls are positive for a day or so, others a few hours. To be honest, I think with opks it depends on when you test as you might be unlucky and just miss the LH surge. That's what I'm assuming happened to me last month, much nicer than thinking I didn't ov at all!

Your plan of bding as much as possible with preseed sounds like an excellent one so you'll be bound to catch the right days! A few of the girls recently got their BFPs using preseed so good luck! Sending lots of and

Hey girlies,

Schmelly - Big I was feeling really down last last month, everyone has good days and bad ones.
Your not alone, feel free to PM me if you want a chat

Not a lot to report so far, had some fab over the weekend but since my OPK's have been neg it was more for recreation than purpose!

Had spotting today which was odd/annoyed me (well after the very short excitement of thinking it might be implant bleeding .... but I ruled that out since I haven't O'd yet so there wouldn't be anything to implant!)

Will try with the OPK's again the day after tomorrow and go from there. I'm pretty sure I O about CD14 and I've had no EWCM so don't think I've missed it.
When it does happen tho thank god for Pre-seed!

Other than that just trying to stay happy and positive, am just off to play on the Wii Fit

OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH....I'm sooooooooo jealous of your Wii Fit!!! I want one i want one i want one!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My mum's thinking of getting one, so think I might be spending more time round there!!! Can't afford one myself at the moment...just had to buy a new car after writing mine off............................................

We've just set up my hubby's wii, playing bowling now. Have my wii fit upstairs ready to be set up at some point when we have time!

This is going to be our week girls. I think we are all meant to have 2009 babies.

Hey Dee, how things?

It will indeed be our month
Lots of little winter babies for us

How are you ladies feeling?

I'm having a crappy pessimistic day, not sure why, work was pants and I feel all 'it's never going to happen for me'

Someone please give me a swift kick up the butt.................

This is going to be our month Farie, don't you worry! Elm and I are refusing to consider the possibility that it won't happen. and seeing as I don't think I could face another reflexology session, it'd better happen this month!!