If you could be stationed anywhere in the world, where would it be..and why?
I LOVED Germany!! We lived there for 3 wonderful years and we are trying so hard to get back there. And if we do, we will stay there for the rest of our time in the army. Oh man, the culture and the people are amazing.. the landscape is breathtaking. I miss it so much.

How did you meet your DH/OH?
At birth. Our grandmothers were bffs and our mothers were bffs. He is 9 months older than me (I was conceived the day he was born) and his mother is my godmother and namesake. Her name is my middle name. We were bffs and started dating at 12/13.

How many children do you have?
1 angel baby that watches over us.

WHo has had to deal with out of state/overseas moving and custody with an ex spouse?
I do not have an ex-spouse.

My question:
What do you and OH/DH do to keep the the BabyDance romantic?
Candles, sexy underwear and sexy music!

Hi guys. I'm fascinated by military couples. My brother in law is a royal marine and my mother and father in law were also a military couple. May I ask, what attracted you to this lifestyle? x

I can't say that I was attracted to the lifestyle until it wasn't even a choice. I do love the extreme sense of pride that I have knowing everything my husband and our family sacrifice for the well-being of people not willing or not able to do themselves

How did you meet your DH/OH?
Online lol, it was just because I was bored and I couldn't believe I fell for a guy that I met on the internet!

How many children do you have?
2 with exhubby and 2 angel babies with DH

WHo has had to deal with out of state/overseas moving and custody with an ex spouse?
I have! It's awful! Got married at age 18, preggo with 2nd baby and had a wonderful marriage, he joined the army and turned into the biggest jerk imaginable and was "pro-male" I guess you could put it, the woman's place was at home in the kitchen from then on and we argued about everything all of the time, he refused to go to church or counseling and after 2 more years I couldn't handle it anymore. I only stayed that long for the kids because he is an amazing dad so it was really hard to move away from him for their sake. We now live 2 states away (800 miles) and visitation is really hard, but we make it work as much as possible.

My question:
What do you and OH/DH do to keep the the BabyDance romantic?
Candles and lotion massages, and cute underwears!

I don't think it's the lifestyle as much as it is just falling in love. Then your DH becomes a package deal with the Army so you learn to cope, and even develop pride It's wonderful nonetheless.. as much as the Army irks me sometimes, it really is an amazing lifestyle..

If you could be stationed anywhere in the world, where would it be...and why?

Germany

I hear alot of people I talked to that have been there and loved it.

Anyday now we find out our next duty station, this is one of our picks, I hope we get it.


How did you meet your DH?

We met online in Orlando, Florida. On the yahoo chat rooms, he instant message me and stole my heart


How many children do you have ?

He has one daughter (15 yr old) from a previous. I have none


What do and your DH/OH to keep the BabyDance romantic ?

Just looking at each other, big hugs

OoOOo! I hope you get it!

Well everyone, I've officially given up hope. I can't do this anymore. I really thought this month (and last month and the month before...) would be it for us, and still not bfp. AF came today, right on time and I've devasted. Hubby deploys in 3 weeks so it's our last chance and obviously, the odds are against us. I really don't know what I'm going to do this time next month when AF comes and I'll be all alone to cry, at least right now I have hubby here but he'll be in Iraq by then...

I'm really losing it

C-demers- I'm so sorry honey, that's a crappy feeling It's always hard when they deploy anyway! How long will he be deployed? Just try to relax and soak up the next few weeks with him, even though the odds are against you it isn't impossible in the last week, right? And maybe if you're not trying, and just enjoying eachother you'll have some great news for him while he's there. If not, when he gets back you can keep trying. Think of it as a break from the stress of TTC

Wish I could give ya a hug! There are no words that will help the way you feel right now.. just support from your family and friends. But just know you'll get through it

We just found out this morning were being transferred to Ft. Drum, New York in August.

Hopefully Germany next time....at least were closer to it