Must admit, feel a bit blessed that nobody at work or any of my friends has harassed me. They couldn't ask the first month as we were away and they did ask the second but nothing since then.

Hardly anyone knows at work as i'm a detective in the MET and they'd prob give me so much cr*p about it... i can hear them now 'bloody part timers'.....!

We are moving to NZ in 12 months (or less ) I'm hoping being on the other side of the world will dilute her wrath!

Ha ha... good call!!!

Tee hee, my hubby is a sargeant in the police, he wouldn't let on to his lot cos he's knows the amount of blag he'd get!

see coppers are all evil! i work for the child abuse team, i really need some time off.. not that that's my reason for a baby!! he he

I have told all my friends and family... since starting clomid I get terrible mood swings... so I gathered that by telling them all, I can get away with snapping every now and then and blame it on the Clomid.

Scott has told a few people at his work and his dad... his dad is really excited because he is old and on his own... so I want to give him a grandchild just as much as I want a child for myself.

Interesting thread.
Me and Dh haven't told anyone- especially my mum who would bug the hell out of me asking me every 4 weeks if there was any news. We really dont need that kind of pressure! On the other hand all i get now is "when are you two going to have kids" which sometimes makes me feel worse as i feel like screaming "we are flipping trying our hardest"!!!!
You can't win either way!

I don't plan on telling my family until I'm into the second trimester of being pregnant. I don't want constant questions on how trying is going, and I'm scared of getting excited and telling them if/when I get pregnant and having an early miscarriage, so just to avoid the added stress I think I am going to wait until then. My family can be very nosy and pushy.

I haven't told any of my family. They are traditional, and would not be terrible happy knowing me and OH are trying without being married first.
Only you girlies and my best friend know x

I haven't told my parents just b/c they tend to worry - silently and out loud, lol. It's best for them to know around the second tri. I've told friends we're trying but thankfully no one is harassing us.