Hubby always too tired - Page 2

Mistycat · Feb 13th, 2010, 09:42 AM

Don't know about other DH's but mine doesn't like to link

with TTC (I know that's weird and of course they have to be linked lol!)

He's fine with us TTC but would rather I didn't make reference to it, and we just enjoy

Maybe your DH is the same?

grrlmom · Feb 13th, 2010, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by jkbmah

I know many people have a similar issue but today this is really getting me down. We are on out 9th month of TTC and i am convinced the reason we have not been successful is that we dont

enough.

On a normal week we would prob

only once, if im at peak fertility hubby seems to only manage twice. He is always "too tired" When we do we always enjoy it!!

Ive tried seduction but it doesnt work, im at a loss and dont know what to do and was wondering if anyone had any pearls of wisdom ?? or know of any good aphrodisiacs???

I've mentioned this a number of times, but the way hubby and I are dealing with this is that he masturbates in another room until he's almost ready (he doesn't like me to watch him), and then he comes in to the bedroom and finishes in me. It only takes a couple of minutes at most, which is a huge relief.
We are BDing every day, and I was getting to the point that I couldn't stand it, before we agreed on this method.

Before we started ttc, he used to masturbate every day anyway, so this is not a great departure from his normal routine... it's just that now he ejaculates in me, instead of in a wad of paper towels.

See if your hubby would be interested in trying this.

Too frequent sex (which I define as "more frequent than either partner wants it") is hell on a relationship. But it's almost a must when it comes to trying to conceive.
To me and my husband, this solution we've found is the perfect answer.

Good luck!

jkbmah · Feb 13th, 2010, 11:45 AM

thanks for all the words of wisdom people. he doesnt masterbate either!!! (well not to my knowledge anyway. maybe i go for the "it will help you sleep" approach ??? perhaps the PS3 action isnt helpign either. Anyway my CBFM says im still "high" but not peak today and its a saturday so hes fnished work for the week. I might put my seduction skills to the test tonight and see how we go

Feb 13th, 2010, 09:42 AM	#11
Mistycat Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: London UK Posts: 397	Don't know about other DH's but mine doesn't like to linkwith TTC (I know that's weird and of course they have to be linked lol!) He's fine with us TTC but would rather I didn't make reference to it, and we just enjoy Maybe your DH is the same?

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Feb 13th, 2010, 11:45 AM	#13
jkbmah Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Stockport - UK Posts: 581	thanks for all the words of wisdom people. he doesnt masterbate either!!! (well not to my knowledge anyway. maybe i go for the "it will help you sleep" approach ??? perhaps the PS3 action isnt helpign either. Anyway my CBFM says im still "high" but not peak today and its a saturday so hes fnished work for the week. I might put my seduction skills to the test tonight and see how we go

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