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Originally Posted by babydust27 is it just me or is EVERYONE pregnant and HOW MANY tv programmes at the moment are on about Pregnancy - has it always been like this or is just because im tuned in with it all or am i going slowly mentally insane??????!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stacey in Eastenders, Beck in Corrie, Danni minogue, Denise van outen (Watching Lee Mead on This morning as we speak) AGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH |
Popular culture certainly is a lot more "mom-and-baby-centric" than it was, for instance, when I was a teenager back in the late 80s/ early 90s.
Society goes back and forth on the issue of reproduction and family planning. Right now, it's sort of like the 1950s all over again.
In the 80s and 90s, pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood were not nearly as glorified, not nearly as trendy, as they are today (or as they were in some previous eras).
Nobody- and I mean nobody, nobody,
nobody- planned to have more than one or two children, back in the 1980s. There were no pregnant movie stars or celebrities (or if there were, they did not appear in public, in print, or onscreen until after they'd delivered and lost all their weight; and there was zero public interest in the children of celebrities). Having children before age 30 was frowned upon. Not having children at all was considered an admirable choice. Getting back to work immediately after having children was also considered a responsible and admirable choice.
Today, these things are looked at differently, but the pendulum of popular opinion will swing back again, don't you worry.
It always does, on every issue.
I'm not sure either way is "right" or "wrong"; I wish there was cultural support for all women (and men) regardless of their personal and family planning choices.
It's not really about "support" anyway, it's just about what's hip and stylish.
Right now, baby bumps are considered a fashionable accessory.
Twenty years ago, they weren't.
Ten years from now, they probably won't be, again.
I recognize that the current "preggo-centricism" of our society must make ttc even more stressful for some women.
It's a shame.