My OH ex just had her baby...and

grrlmom · Feb 8th, 2010, 23:48 PM

I don't know what to say about this.
I'm sorry you feel sad.

Dannib247 · Feb 9th, 2010, 06:31 AM

big hugs xx

NicoleB · Feb 9th, 2010, 06:38 AM

big hugs honey!!

Worrisome · Feb 9th, 2010, 06:51 AM

hun

crossroads · Feb 9th, 2010, 06:56 AM

I'm sorry

It's not his is it?

lindsayscoob · Feb 9th, 2010, 10:22 AM

Hey, not sure whether you mean its his or not, but I can relate to what you're feeling, if it not his. My ex husbands partner had a baby in july '07, we were just at the point of finding out whether my DH could change medication so we were able to ttc. But when I found out she was pregnant I thought my chances of ttc were non existent, and I struggled big time. When she had her I sobbed, my DH didn't really understand but it wasn't cos ahe had my exs baby just because she had one and if I'd still been with ex it would of been us having ou 2nd one at that time we said we'd ttc againn when our lo was 3, which she was. Sorry long post but I just wanted you to know that I felt heartbroken to.

MyFirstNoodle · Feb 9th, 2010, 13:51 PM

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Originally Posted by lindsayscoob

Hey, not sure whether you mean its his or not, but I can relate to what you're feeling, if it not his. My ex husbands partner had a baby in july '07, we were just at the point of finding out whether my DH could change medication so we were able to ttc. But when I found out she was pregnant I thought my chances of ttc were non existent, and I struggled big time. When she had her I sobbed, my DH didn't really understand but it wasn't cos ahe had my exs baby just because she had one and if I'd still been with ex it would of been us having ou 2nd one at that time we said we'd ttc againn when our lo was 3, which she was. Sorry long post but I just wanted you to know that I felt heartbroken to.

yep thats how I feel. When I saw the pics there was a lump in my throat! Its not my OH but he does have a daughter with her! we started TTC and then found out she was pregnant THATS HARD! Plus she says nasty things about me (obviously as im with her ex) things like "you will never get pregnant" and "i have want you want - a baby with your OH" etc. etc. I shouldnt feel jealous but I do. I want a baby!!

Did you get pregnant with DH?? Good luck hun if you are still trying xxx

WanderingStar · Feb 9th, 2010, 13:54 PM

Oh my gosh that's so mean noodle. I didn't see what the first post said, but responding to her comments she would make to you- how IMMATURE.

How old is she? And to think she's raising a child with that attitude. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, it's hard enough without someone there to torture you over it.

goddess25 · Feb 9th, 2010, 13:55 PM

All I can say is big hugs to you. I can understand its difficult but hopefully it will be your turn soon.

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lindsayscoob Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: cambridgeshire Posts: 948	Hey, not sure whether you mean its his or not, but I can relate to what you're feeling, if it not his. My ex husbands partner had a baby in july '07, we were just at the point of finding out whether my DH could change medication so we were able to ttc. But when I found out she was pregnant I thought my chances of ttc were non existent, and I struggled big time. When she had her I sobbed, my DH didn't really understand but it wasn't cos ahe had my exs baby just because she had one and if I'd still been with ex it would of been us having ou 2nd one at that time we said we'd ttc againn when our lo was 3, which she was. Sorry long post but I just wanted you to know that I felt heartbroken to.

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WanderingStar Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 187	Oh my gosh that's so mean noodle. I didn't see what the first post said, but responding to her comments she would make to you- how IMMATURE. How old is she? And to think she's raising a child with that attitude. I'm sorry you have to deal with that, it's hard enough without someone there to torture you over it.

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