How much do they know, or rather how far to they think you're involved in this TTC stuff?

For example;

-Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB?
-Use Ov sticks?
-Know you POAS as often as you do?
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting?
-Know you check your CM?
-Know you temp?
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do?

For me, Im pretty sure he knows I use BnB but I think he assumes I use it for the parenting side of it, rather than the TTC side. I dont use Ov strips so thats neither here nor there, but he doesnt know that Ive had a stock of IC's in the past, and how Im a bit of a POAS addict! I dont check my CM or temp but if I did, he wouldnt know about it!

How much does your husband or partner know?

My OH pretty much knows everything now lol. When he found out I was coming on BnB he got very interested in everything because I was so excited to find out so much new stuff to do with TTC lol. I even creeped him out by telling him I checked CM and CP hahaha. He knows I temp because my alarm goes off every morning at 7am even on weekends/holidays. He knows how much I test because I tell him everytime I do one... which is quite a reasonable amount IMO lol. And he knows I use OPK's because I told him I'd bought them lol. I tell him pretty much everything. The only thing he doesn't know is how much I obsess about it all in my head XD I keep that to myself for his sanity rather than mine haha.

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mine knows i come on BnB and knows ive bought OPK's and IC. thats about it really lol see hes a bit daft and thinks you+me=sex=pregnancy=baby. when i try and explain that you only have a few days to accutully catch the egg and all the factors involved he just goes blank lol jsut leaving him to it cause all i got was "ok u tell me when ur egg wants a bit and well have a go" fellas eh lol

-Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB?
Yes he does but he thinks its just a baby website i think...me getting all embarrassed when he looks what im doing doesnt help lol

-Use Ov sticks?
I dont

-Know you POAS as often as you do?
No...but he does look at the box where I keep the tests and frows a lot haha

-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting?
I dont because I do stupid things like test on CD 9

-Know you check your CM?
HAHA, does he heck!

-Know you temp?
No but only because he hasnt noticed yet

-Know you symptom spot as much as you do?
No, i keep most of them to myself and any I do mention he tell me not to get exited about

-Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB? yeah, i used it when i was pregnant and he knows i use the ttc bit,
-Use Ov sticks? i dont but he would know if i did use them
-Know you POAS as often as you do? yeah cus i tell him everytime i do one
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? im not allowed to cus i just waste them! i buy 2 at a time max!
-Know you check your CM? i dont but i know generally that EWCM means fertile and he knows this too cus iv told him!
-Know you temp? i dont yet but weve discussed that im gunna start temping after next cycle, cus im irregular and we want to know when i OV
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? no i keep it to myself cus i dont wanna disapoint him if im not pregnant, i tell him the odd thing though but dont really add on the end ITS A SYMPTOM OF PREGNANCY!


hahaha i think were pretty open with each other, he would rather NTNP though were as i want to TTC, i just keep the technical side to myself but he knows whats going on but hes not gunna say no to is he lmao!

Great thread! Looking forward to seeing all the answers

-Does he know you use BnB? Yes, but doesn't know quite how much time I spend on here.
-Use Ov sticks? Yeap!
-Know you POAS as often as you do? No, see next answer...
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? Yes, but not the full truth, expecially my HPT collection! See my 'Confessions of a POASoholic' thread!
-Know you check your CM? Kinda, don't think he really understands and to what extent though.
-Know you temp? Yes, defo, I think the beeping wakes him up every morning
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? No way! That's for my BnB buddies only

He is pretty clued up but honestly I think it can be a bit much for some guys and 'TMI'! One month I went into quite a bit of detail and it had an effect on the BDing so I have learnt to put a bit of mystery back into it if you know what I mean?

Hope x

My OH knows everything about me, he even has a BNB account ! He researches what's good and bad for TTC and he is willing to try all kinds in order to get us that BFP ! he puts the pillow under my bottom after BD and even sticks his legs up in the air with me so it seems normal ! hehehe

I am very lucky that we are so open with each other!


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-Does he know you use BnB? Yeah we look together
-Use Ov sticks? I dont use them yet but if this month is not my month then yes we have discussed using them next month
-Know you POAS as often as you do? hahaha yes he knows my secrets
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? Yep we brought them together they are in our secret cupboard
-Know you check your CM? Yes
-Know you temp? I don't temp
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? Thats the only thing i keep to myself cause he would only be gutted when af arrives

This is soooo cute!


Brilliant thread, here's my answers:

Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB?
Yes, but I don't let him see, and he doesn't know how much
-Use Ov sticks?
Yes, but not how many LOL! I also don't tell him when I do them anymore or when they're positive because it affects his 'performance'!
-Know you POAS as often as you do?
No way! I usually POAS when he's gone to work!
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting?
He knows I have a little bag in the cupboard (ok big bag!) but he doesn't know how many there are!
-Know you check your CM?
No way!
-Know you temp?
yep cos I do it in bed in the morning, sometimes I make him take his BBT too!!
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do?
Nope, I don't want to get his hopes up, plus I think my 'symptoms' are mainly in my head!

I'm going to start using soft cups this cycle so not sure how I'm going to sneak that in after BD without him noticing LOL!

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