im sorry to hear about all your losses!!

my dad had a heart attack last year and almost dies on us, so its made me realise just how fragile life is..my dad been predicted 10 more years to live so i want him to know his grand children and them know him as i never got a chance to know my grandads..

i was a baby when they passed away!!

i will keep you updated on my BFP!!

do you have a journal? i fancy stalking some new ones haha!!

hey wannabmamma..

just ignore them spiteful people..their just jealous of what you and your OH have!!

me and Oh arnt going to tell family until were PG, we want it to be a nice surprise for them!!

He is exited but doesnt talk about it much, hes scared we wont actually be able to have kids as we have been trying for nearly a year...

we just want to get our bfp!

have you told your family? xx

My boys are 4 and 2 1/2..Very close but i wanna have my kids young so i have all the energy for them.

noo we haven't told our family or friends reallly we want it to be a surprise..

this is our 7th cycle..

ive told my best friend as she fell preg at 14 and her and her fiance are trying for their first together..
and my OH told his cousin!!

Faiiry Dustt, trust me I wanted to but she was the owner and a family friend worked there, not only that I wanted to show her I was mature. When I smiled at her she did give me a nasty face and walked away. She wasn't a person that I would waste my breathe on. some people are just rude. My parents were young too when they got married, my mom was 20 and my dad was 23/24. and it took them 13 yrs to get pregnant with, I'm the only child. My parents were happy when my hubby and I got married, they loved my hubby and they were young like me and him. My parents were upset when I got pg the first two times because my hubby and I wasn't married at the time, which I don't see the difference, but since they were a lot older, they were living in the old days, were pretty much everyone got married first before having kids. My hubby and I will be Married for 6 years March 27th and have been together 8 yrs March 24th. We have been though so much but we are still growing strong and I love him so much. It's great when you find a guy that wants kids, special young ones, theres not too many out there, you know you have a special guy when he loves kids....I'm happy for all of you and GL with everything!

Hey Ladies

Can i join in??

Im 21 and OH is 27 we have been ttc properly for about 2 months now no luck yet!

GL All

of course you can join in the more the merrier!!

I had my first at 21 and all i would say is make sure you have done all you want to do as a couple,

we went on lovley holidays to mexico, cuba and barbados ( have been with now hubby since 16 ) and went on loads of nights out loveley meals because it does change when you have a baby

I am so gald i had my first young but also glad i got to experiance alot before as i know now it would not have been possible with a baby.

Good luck to you hun hope you get your bfp soon
xx

Both my grandfathers passed before I was born too. My one grandmom died the day after my 6th bday. My other grandmom died when I was 16, but I barely saw her because of issues in my family. So both my daughters grandfathers have died, they died exactly a year and week apart. We don't really talk to my hubby's mom and sisters, causes theres alot of hurt and issues. My mom is in our lives but doesn't really take care of her self. My family moved to NC, so we don't see my family cause they live 8/9 hrs away. So yeah life does suck at times, but all you can do is move on and just keep living. I finally gave in to wanting to have another baby, my hubby wanted another as soon as my daughter was born. But I feel into a bad depression, it 3 yrs for me to wake up, I learned that my dad wont want to see me depressed he would want me to be happy anf take care of my family. Now I feel like a stronger person and been doing alot. I been helping people, by giving then advice or donating. Just have to keep your head up!