9dpo and wish i knew now!

lesh07 · Jan 31st, 2010, 15:32 PM

I am now 9dpo and feeling a little down

Going back a week ago, i was feeling very enthausiastic about this month - but now i don't.

In the passed few days i have had bad cramping, backpain and had a really bad belly (toilet wise

) and i still have 5 days till i am due AF.

This is our 7 month in trying and the more the months go past, the harder it is too feel upbeat.

Anyone else due to test this week?

Lesh xxx

ayh78 · Jan 31st, 2010, 15:47 PM

Hi Lesh,
Sorry to hear you're not feeling great. Hope it passes soon.

I feel similar to you. I keep alternating between feeling upbeat and positive, then thinking it can't possibly happen

. I have no symptoms, but then I don't usually get much in the way of cramping etc anyway. I'm 8dpo today.

I'm only in the first month, and I feel a bit like I'll feel guilty if I do get a BFP because of all the ladies like you who've been trying for longer.

7 days to testing/af; I can't believe this week can possibly be longer than last week....

Flake-y · Jan 31st, 2010, 17:05 PM

Hey lesh, know exactly how you feel; the last few days of the 2ww are so hard; I get so nervous; want to test hoping it'll be a bfp but if it's a bfn it's so much worse...
Good luck anyway, hope it's your month!

Nanda0407 · Jan 31st, 2010, 21:28 PM

im the same. one minute i feel positive then 5 minutes later i think " im setting myself up for a big disappointment". my boobs arent really sore just a little. they are getting veiny though.i have this weird taste in my mouth off and on. and i cramped from 2-3dpo till like 8-9. now im crampy off and on. dont know whats going on. af due on the 4th. i tested 6-7 dpo BFN...... maybe too early? idk... i just dont know what to think anymore.

jappygirl76 · Jan 31st, 2010, 21:33 PM

I am also at 7dpo, and my bb's are very sore. My stomach feels like I have been doing sit ups for days, and if I don't eat I feel very nauseous. So, I dont really know what that means, but I want to test soooooo bad. I am not going too, because it is way too early, but I know how you feel.

Good luck and

to everyone!!!

MrsCrabsticke · Jan 31st, 2010, 21:52 PM

i feel the same, we are onto our 5th cycle since our mmc and i have lost all hope that it will happen again so much so that this month we didn't use and opks or temp we just went with the flow.

i think i am ready to give up atm, want this to happen so badly just feeling down about it today.

good luck for all the ladies waiting to find out.

Sharon983 · Feb 1st, 2010, 00:24 AM

Hi ladies, I'm 6 or 7 dpo. I also have sore boobs, my temps have been high, I been having alot of heat flashes. I been cramping for a little over a weeks now. I thought AF will come on the 3rd, but when I did a due date calculator for fun, it said that AF will come around the 6th. Today I went to the bathroom and saw a lot of white discharge in my underwear (sorry tmi). I know some of my symptoms I do get when AF is coming soon. But the cramping I usually start to get a couple days before AF, not like over a week. I don't get high temps. or heat flashes either. My temp has been high 98's and in the 99's. I hate this waiting game LOL. hopefully I'll find out next Monday! Baby Dust to all!

lesh07 · Feb 1st, 2010, 07:30 AM

Cheers guys

Well i am due to test in 4 days now! Although i will probably leave it a couple of days i have spent sooo much money on tests in the last few months

My Husband is trying to keep me upbeat, by telling me that everything will be fine and if this isn't the month we can try harder next month......but the more the months go by the harder it is. Especially as i have cut out pretty much ALL alcahol and been eating loads (which is a big thing for me, trust me!) and even taking vitamins!
All this to improve my body so i will be able to carry a baby healthly

I too only usually get cramps for a couple of days before AF is due, but have had them for the past few days.

Good luck too all - Lots of baby dust

Lesh xxxx

Stella Blue · Feb 1st, 2010, 11:30 AM

Hang in there lesh! ~~~Your countdown is winding up!~~~(but don't the days just get longer!) I would advise you to stay busy, but that would be hypocritical, unless you count spending hours online obsessing over the possibility of being pg as staying busy! (=

I'm about 8 DPO today (I think) and will try to hold out till fri. or saturday. The only HPT I have here is a CBE digi, and since those are both expensive and not as sensitive as some others, I'm going to give it everything I can to hold out and not spend anymore $$!

I want to get in to the early HPT business so I can make a fortune!!

keeping my fx for ya hun!

Stella Blue · Feb 1st, 2010, 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrsCrabsticke

i feel the same, we are onto our 5th cycle since our mmc and i have lost all hope that it will happen again so much so that this month we didn't use and opks or temp we just went with the flow.

i think i am ready to give up atm, want this to happen so badly just feeling down about it today.

good luck for all the ladies waiting to find out.

I have read many a' success story from women giving up the charts/tests ect and going with flow...Maybe that's just what you needed!

I see by your ticker you are due to test soon~~I hope you're feeling better and I def. hope you see that BFP! xxxx

SUPER GLUE &

Jan 31st, 2010, 15:32 PM	#1
lesh07 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 554	9dpo and wish i knew now! I am now 9dpo and feeling a little down Going back a week ago, i was feeling very enthausiastic about this month - but now i don't. In the passed few days i have had bad cramping, backpain and had a really bad belly (toilet wise ) and i still have 5 days till i am due AF. This is our 7 month in trying and the more the months go past, the harder it is too feel upbeat. Anyone else due to test this week? Lesh xxx

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Jan 31st, 2010, 15:47 PM	#2
ayh78 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Nottingham, UK Posts: 1,020	Hi Lesh, Sorry to hear you're not feeling great. Hope it passes soon. I feel similar to you. I keep alternating between feeling upbeat and positive, then thinking it can't possibly happen. I have no symptoms, but then I don't usually get much in the way of cramping etc anyway. I'm 8dpo today. I'm only in the first month, and I feel a bit like I'll feel guilty if I do get a BFP because of all the ladies like you who've been trying for longer. 7 days to testing/af; I can't believe this week can possibly be longer than last week....

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Jan 31st, 2010, 17:05 PM	#3
Flake-y Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Gourock, Scotland Posts: 4,554	Hey lesh, know exactly how you feel; the last few days of the 2ww are so hard; I get so nervous; want to test hoping it'll be a bfp but if it's a bfn it's so much worse... Good luck anyway, hope it's your month!

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Jan 31st, 2010, 21:28 PM	#4
Nanda0407 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ft lauderdale, florida Posts: 203	im the same. one minute i feel positive then 5 minutes later i think " im setting myself up for a big disappointment". my boobs arent really sore just a little. they are getting veiny though.i have this weird taste in my mouth off and on. and i cramped from 2-3dpo till like 8-9. now im crampy off and on. dont know whats going on. af due on the 4th. i tested 6-7 dpo BFN...... maybe too early? idk... i just dont know what to think anymore.

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Jan 31st, 2010, 21:33 PM	#5
jappygirl76 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Tamarac, FL Posts: 453	I am also at 7dpo, and my bb's are very sore. My stomach feels like I have been doing sit ups for days, and if I don't eat I feel very nauseous. So, I dont really know what that means, but I want to test soooooo bad. I am not going too, because it is way too early, but I know how you feel. Good luck and to everyone!!!

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Jan 31st, 2010, 21:52 PM	#6
MrsCrabsticke Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 2,386	i feel the same, we are onto our 5th cycle since our mmc and i have lost all hope that it will happen again so much so that this month we didn't use and opks or temp we just went with the flow. i think i am ready to give up atm, want this to happen so badly just feeling down about it today. good luck for all the ladies waiting to find out.

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Feb 1st, 2010, 00:24 AM	#7
Sharon983 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NC Posts: 80	Hi ladies, I'm 6 or 7 dpo. I also have sore boobs, my temps have been high, I been having alot of heat flashes. I been cramping for a little over a weeks now. I thought AF will come on the 3rd, but when I did a due date calculator for fun, it said that AF will come around the 6th. Today I went to the bathroom and saw a lot of white discharge in my underwear (sorry tmi). I know some of my symptoms I do get when AF is coming soon. But the cramping I usually start to get a couple days before AF, not like over a week. I don't get high temps. or heat flashes either. My temp has been high 98's and in the 99's. I hate this waiting game LOL. hopefully I'll find out next Monday! Baby Dust to all!

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Feb 1st, 2010, 07:30 AM	#8
lesh07 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 554	Cheers guys Well i am due to test in 4 days now! Although i will probably leave it a couple of days i have spent sooo much money on tests in the last few months My Husband is trying to keep me upbeat, by telling me that everything will be fine and if this isn't the month we can try harder next month......but the more the months go by the harder it is. Especially as i have cut out pretty much ALL alcahol and been eating loads (which is a big thing for me, trust me!) and even taking vitamins! All this to improve my body so i will be able to carry a baby healthly I too only usually get cramps for a couple of days before AF is due, but have had them for the past few days. Good luck too all - Lots of baby dust Lesh xxxx

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Feb 1st, 2010, 11:30 AM	#9
Stella Blue Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: St. Louis metro Posts: 66	Hang in there lesh! ~~~Your countdown is winding up!~~~(but don't the days just get longer!) I would advise you to stay busy, but that would be hypocritical, unless you count spending hours online obsessing over the possibility of being pg as staying busy! (= I'm about 8 DPO today (I think) and will try to hold out till fri. or saturday. The only HPT I have here is a CBE digi, and since those are both expensive and not as sensitive as some others, I'm going to give it everything I can to hold out and not spend anymore $$! I want to get in to the early HPT business so I can make a fortune!! keeping my fx for ya hun!

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