Hey my name ashie..
lately i have been feeling like absolutly like crap, ive been really hormonal.. me and my hubby have been trying for a baby and he has been cumin in me for nearly 3 months, but nothing seems to be working i dont kno what to do because i keep thinking what if i have a problem and cant have babies? how could i find out? also me and my hubby have had sex and ive bleed really badly i need help i dont kno whats happening to me.. is this normal??
will be very thankful for some help...
write back soon. x

Sometimes TTC takes a while, lovey, it's a bit early yet to be thinking you can't have babies or something is wrong with you . I am sure it will happen for you, just need a bit more time. As for your bleeding after doing the deed, i can't really say except maybe things were a bit rough :/ sorry no help there! I wouldn't suggest googling it either haha, you may scare yourself, as there could be many many reasons why there is bleeding! You could always make an appointment for yourself to talk with your doctor about TTC and ask any questions you have!

good luck TTC! hope you get a bfp soon!

Hi Ashieb
I'm a new poster on here too (but lurking for a few months!). As Samo says 3 months is only early days for trying for a baby so don't worry about it quite yet As regards the bleeding after sex you should go see your GP about that as you may need them to check your cervix and make sure your up to date with your smear tests, as this kind of problem can be caused by the surface of the cervix being very fragile and it needs checking out.

Take care and good luck with your BFP!
x

Hey honey, you need to really think if this is what's best for you and if you can give this baby the best possible life s/he could have. I'm only 15, my little boy was an accident but the best one at that, but you really need to understand that if you have a baby you are agreeing to dedicate your life to this baby, not ANYTHING else. It's not just a day job, you never get a break, for the rest of your life your sole purpose will be to care for and nurture this child in every way possible. And as soon as you have this baby - you need to make sure you know that that's it, you are no longer a child; you have the responsibility of reassuring your child with the best possible life, paying for all his meals, getting him an education, having a roof for him to sleep under, and having time to spend with him on a daily basis ontop of all that. If your parents knew about the baby, would they support you?
I know that maybe you think you're in love, maybe you are in love, but sweetie people change. In 10 years from now you are going to be a completely different person, but sadly most young couples, especially ones that have a baby at such a young age, tend to not realize that until it's too late.
If this is truly what you desire and you can give this baby the life he so deserves, then best of luck to you my dear, pm me at anytime I'm always around somewhere.

Honey - you are only 16, maybe your body is telling you wait a bit longer. Hope you get the result you want in end, but as mBLACK says a baby puts so much pressure on a relationship and needs more attention than you (or anyone without children) realise

Hi Ashieb,

sorry you've been feeling so bad. It's not normal to be bleeding badly after sex, it doesn't mean that there's anything seriously wrong so get it checked out. The people who work in family planning clinics are usually really lovely if you don't want to go to your drs and you can ask them about TTC and things.

Hope you're feeling better soon and you get some help so you can stop worrying x

I have to Echo what Mblack says. I send my best wishes to you anyway though.

Please go to see your Gp and get checked about the bleeding its not normal, i had this problem once, and it turned out i had a light abrasion inside and with repetative stimulation, it just kept bleeding time and time again. Problem solved now though.

Also don't worry about how long it seems to be talking to concieve, many many girls on here have been trying for many many months, and some years even.
You only have a few fertile days each month, without knowing when these are, it can reduce the likelihood of falling pregnant quickly.