Okay this is really hard for me to write as I don't want people to get the wrong impression of me or my other half. The story is I found out I was pg last week on Wednesday the day before I was told I had pelvic inflamatory disease I though well that must be from the mc I had the month before. The Doctor then took blood test from my partner and me and did some swob test to check we did not have any STI's well on Friday they called my husband to say that there is a chance he may have syphilis as his blood had come back with a low positive. I have not had mine back yet and am so scared. What if i have something worse or the same. I feel sick I cannot sleep, eat my stomach is in a constant knot and it is all I can think about. We have been together for 5 years and my partner would never cheat so it means it is something we have had for a long time. We have had Chlamydia tablets so that if we did have that then it has gone now. I just don't know what to do with myself.

Oh and another thing I went for blood tests this morning at the hospital as they think baby might be ectopic and I have to wait for the morning to find out.

What do I do i never thought something like this would happen to me. Sorry none of this sounds quite believeable, i cannot believe it myself. I have to wait until wed to get STI results and hubby should get his tomorrow. It is driving me mad.

No advice for you really, but wanted to wish you good luck with the results

Thanks I don't think many people will. I just needed to vent a bit really. I just have to wait and see.

No advice to give either really Steph - all i can say is (to try and help you look on the positive side of this) at least, if either of you do have an STI (god forbid) then if you catch it now, you may have a chance of getting rid of any damage that MAY have been done.... rather than the infection having been left dormant for many more years which could have caused probs....

Anyway hun, keep ur chin up, and good luck with your results. all the best,

Nic xx

Thank you. I know I try to think positive but it is so scary. I just cannot believe it as I have always been careful, obviously not. I just want this to end and know everything is going to be okay with me and bean and hubby. this is so awful.

Same as the other girls, good luck

to be honest with you, im not sure if syphilis is something you can have and not know about. i'm no expert, but doesn't it cause sores, rashes and ulcerations?

but i really hope everything works out okay for you all, keep positive and dont let the worry get to you. at least now you can get something done about it

thinking of you, good luck....and try not to get too worked up huni, - easier said than done though xx

Hope all goes as well as it can!!!!

And I pray that ur not having an ectopic!!!!

lots of

sorry your having a rough time, let us no how u get on!
thinking of u
xx