Trying To Conceive - Fed up and miserable.... |
Apr 7th, 2008, 10:35 AM
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#1 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat happy BnB member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Glasgow, UK
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Fed up and miserable.... Hey girls. I've reached the 'need some support & encouragement stage'. I'm flicking between resigned and angry.
One of my school friends had a little boy at the weekend and I met my radiantly pregnant neighbour as I came in last night who then told me about how her sister had a little boy on Friday which is great as she has two girls. Of course I made all the right 'oh, that's fantastic, are the girls excited? Are mum and baby healthy and happy? comments'
Hubby has to stay on at work for another week so won't be home till CD17 next cycle. We might see each other at roughly the right time in June, so I might have a baby by the time April '09 comes round. Might.
I bought Agnus Castus at the weekend but really, I just think, what is the point??? | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 11:06 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh Nic
I am sorry lovely. It really sucks when it appears everyone is having babies and NOT you. I know that feeling so well.
Someone I know, aged 16 is pregnant. Why cant this be me!!! I know my time will come but I am so bloody impatient.
I am on the old agnus castus for my PMT so we shall see if it works this month.
My OH this month has stayed out at all the crucial baby making days of my cycle which is just so BLAH (I try not to swear on this forum!!).
Hey, I have been told by many a psychic that July is my month for conceiving resulting in an April baby. That will be you and me lovely with lovely spring lambs xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 11:07 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Awwww hun. It's hard to tell you anything. You know all the sensible points of view, you know what the point is, you know you want this and that it will happen. You're just having a mandatory melt down. Let's just call it a TTC symptom!
Big hugs that it passes quickly though! | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 19:39 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thanks Kypris, I think I'm starting to pick up a bit. Hopefully by the time I've had a glass of wine, a bath and a decent night's sleep I'll feel better. But I'm not kidding myself, its going to be quite a while before I have my own little  . It may even be time to just stop thinking about it for a few months. | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 19:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | don't get discourage NIC...it's a long journey for some of us i know...but we will get our little one we will !  | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 19:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aw Nic....I tell u what.....just stop thinking!!!!lol
You will make it work- I know you will!!!!!
How frustrated u must feel....but u know, my DH is with me all the time...we hardly ever spend any night-times apart....
However, we nearly missed my O last month coz we were tired...and the month b4, I think we had a tiff around 'the days' and he was ill too....so it's not always inevitable!!!! hehe
Take care Misus!!!! xx
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Apr 7th, 2008, 20:00 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | totally see why ur so low hun, so frustrating isnt it!ive even got to the stage now of thinking,its never going to happen!!
how long you been ttc
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Apr 7th, 2008, 20:02 PM
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| O hon, we all know how u feel, so tough seeing pregnant bumps and beautiful babies all around us and yet not our's ... have written about it in my blog today cos am feeling down as well. x | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 20:07 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aww sweet, it's so hard this TTC business, isn't it?  I just found out this past week one of DH's coworker's wife is expecting now and they weren't even trying! Ah well, hard not to think "why not me?" but i just know we will all have our BFPs soon  just have to take things one day at a time. It may be a long wait, but i am sure it will all be worth it in the end!!!!
Hope you start feeling better  we all feel that way once in a while, can't help it i don't think! Thinking of you, and all you other TTC girls | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  honey.
You know everything I'm going to say - hang in there darlin | | | | Status: Offline
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