As some of you know oxsarahxo sadly lost her baby girl Jessica Charlotte Reay hours after giving birth. We are arranging a star to be named after Jessica and a lantern for her resting place from all of us. We also thought it would be nice to make a contribution to Sarah & Matt so they can use it towards flower arrangements, head stone or resting place arrangements. If you would like to contibute please PM me for details. Wobbles (oxsarahxo cannot see this message - Please do not discuss this on the forum) | Welcome to BabyandBump's Trying To Conceive Forum - Trying to conceive your first or doing it again? Share & seek advice through your TTC journey with others. This thread is called 'BD-Athlons' and is in our Trying To Conceive Forums section. |
Apr 4th, 2008, 13:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | BD-Athlons So, as many of you know I am going to break his bones from jumping and I have NO doubt he'll hate me and the baby making business by the end of things, but I am determined that this month we need to rabbit-it every night from CD 6 to CD 24 to make perfectly sure we don't miss O even if it's way early or super late.
I know, it's crazy and it can dilute the swimmers but this is the cycle where we're going by the assumption his count is fine.
Now what has me worried at this point is not my ability to sustain this draconian schedule -thank you PreSeed for making me invincible  - but his.  I am already armed with all possible weapons from long "Do I have you 110% on board with this?!?" talks to "Dude! Seriously! This is VERY important as you said yourself so don't even dream about not!" and even armed with sexy lingerie (one attire per night - obsessed much?!?) and considering buying some p*rn DVDs.
I mean no matter how bad this is still JUST a month of our lives and we love each other and all that jazz but what if I O late and he just can not anymore exactly on those crucial days?!? -
Please don't tell me to do it once every two days, I know I could have planned it as such but too late, this is the plan and I have GOT to keep to it this once. So thoughts on the BD-athlon mess Anyone tried this at home and lived to tell the tale??  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 4th, 2008, 14:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  Not tried it myself but good luck! I hope this is your month!! |
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Apr 4th, 2008, 14:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i say GO FOR IT thats what we are doing too this month and OH is well up for it, i mean why not BDing is supposed to be fun...just make sure you get lots of early nights and dont get too tired staying up late and then getting down to it.....sexy undies and porn will def impress, i've been to ann summers myself lol
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Apr 4th, 2008, 14:51 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Well, this month we went at it everyday except one for 6 days around O time. My poor man had issues on the third or fourth day. Can't remember. And by the end of the week he wouldn't even make eye contact with me for fear I'd rape him again. LOL  And me, I was very sore. Maybe I'm a sissy, but when you go from twice a week ave. to everyday... it's harder than I thought. So I'm wishing you luck. Just don't overdue, as you said yourself, it would suck if he couldn't do the deed on the crucial days. I'd schedule in at least a couple of days off, just so you don't kill him. 
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Apr 4th, 2008, 15:29 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | This is probably waaaayyy TMI, but we've managed the past 8 days in a row, until last night, when... according to him.... and i quote... "you've worn the poor fella out"!!! 
(We had started but he couldn't finish BTW, if anyone is wondering!!! He was very embarassed!!! He says he will prove to me tonight it was a one-off though and i'm getting double to make up for it!!!!!!!  )
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Apr 4th, 2008, 16:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Lol...I think all of us TTC girls have at some point and time, did the same thing. My poor hubby was scared to come home some days as I would catch him in the door and attack him..well not really attack him but you know what I mean. He never really complained though..hell..a man getting his rocks off every night....sounds like every guys dream.  lol. I had to use that smilie.. it makes me roar whenever I see it. Anyway have fun and do what works for you and your partner!  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 4th, 2008, 16:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Coffee This is probably waaaayyy TMI, but we've managed the past 8 days in a row, until last night, when... according to him.... and i quote... "you've worn the poor fella out"!!! 
(We had started but he couldn't finish BTW, if anyone is wondering!!! He was very embarassed!!! He says he will prove to me tonight it was a one-off though and i'm getting double to make up for it!!!!!!!  )
So 18 days in a row might be a little ambitious, so maybe you need to factor in at least one day off in the middle?! | Hmmm I don't know when he could have one off safely. I'm sure it's much I get so tired in the middle of things sometimes that it makes me deeply question my  desires. So far no matter how tired, sore or generally prissy I'd be it seems to hold under scrutiny.
It's not TMI, I know just what you mean with take off but no landing, we had that last cycle once. And it's what I'm worried about. Which is why the plan is to leave it au naturel till that happens then throw the dirty tricks and the weapons in that evening.
He just emailed that he loves me so much. I replied "Good deal! You have 16 more days to prove it every night!" - See? I'm gentle, not like I put him under any pressure or anything.    | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 4th, 2008, 16:29 PM
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| bet he thinks all his christmas' have come early!! He shouldn't moan some men don't get it at all!! we had loads of fun trying and pretty much did it all the time was great! also was good as I had no idea when I was ovulating as the pill had screwed up my period so we took no risks  |
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Apr 4th, 2008, 21:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | good for you gals who can and want to do it!!
id just like to add for all those who cannot keep up this schedule- Its not needed!!!! Once every night will do it and also research has not proven having sex this much makes any difference..just in case some of you feel inferior sometimes-like me..and i still got pg, lol!!  |
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