God i am just getting fed up. I came of the pill 9 weeks ago and had to wait 4 weeks and 4 days before i got my first AF which came March the first. Second AF due 29th March and still nothing. I have done 2 pt, one 2 days after and one today but both were negative. I have had spotting for a couple of days now and this morning i had really bad cramps like the was coming but nothing.
When i came off the pill when trying for both my boys my AF was as regular as clock work and concieved with both of then in 3 months (Chris 8 and Alex 4). although i was on a differant brand of pill when i was trying with the boys. I have just come off marvelon and during the time i was on it, i very rarely had a withdrawel bleed between packs so i thought maybe it is the pill that is messing my body up.
Sorry to rant but when i try and talk to my hubby about it he just shrugs his shoulders and said don't worry it will happen eventually. He just does not understand the frustration. Plus it does not help with him working nights so when he comes home i go out and when i get home he goes out.
I get the feeling it is going to be forever before i get my BFP

Oh sweetie, waiting is the worst thing ever. You could go to your docs if AF does not show, it depends how much more you willing to wait.

Good luck and hope the does not show x

Hi Wantanother, I completely know what you are going through right now.

I am 5 days late and for at least the last week I have been getting cramps as though was coming but she never came, and I am never late! Then, I started feeling sick and my BB's are big and hurting and I have been getting hedaches and have been really tired which were really positive signs, but then I started spotting (a very small amount). I have done 3 HPTs all BFNs.

I don't know what is going on, its so frustrating. My OH is the same, he doesn't really understand!

Why is it so hard

I have been suffering with a lot headaches as well but i suppose that is the stress of not knowing. I just wish that the would just come and go so i can start another cycle.
I don't remember feeling this stressed when triyng for the last 2 but then again i wasn,t in a job were 75% of the female staff were pregnant. I only has to walk out the office door and i bump into a pregnant women. I think they wonder why i growl at them.

If they have been through the same thing they probably know why you growl petal!!! I hope you get your period soon but if it doesn't regulate in the next two cycles I'd go to the docs xx

It would be nice to know one way or another. I am not giving up hope that i won't get a BFP. But if the comes then i will be just happy to have the chance to try again

Hi im sorry you are having such a tough time, o.k my story as of date is came off ovral BCP on the 6th Feb and drank clomid from CD5-CD9, now up to date no AF im on CD56 and 28days late, saw doc on wed last week and he said it can either be due to me not O which was detirmined on CD21 blood tests, and he said i could still be pg wether i O very late or just my body recovering coming of BCP. Now i drank the BCP to regulate my cycle and now being of it i have a non existent cycle. I started new meds on wednesday, postoval it has the same principal as BCP but it only regulates your cycle and is not a BCP, im also drinking metformin so should get AF CD77, or hopingly a BFP.

Hold faith with my cycle being very late i still have the chance of O very late or even O twice in 2months without AF.

hey wantanother. you sure you not pg? that would be funny :-)

I came off cerazette on 30th January ( I hadn't had a period for 2 years) AF started on 8th March, just over 5 weeks after coming off the pill. I started spotting last Wednesday, that lasted until Sunday when AF properly started (a week early) I think it just takes your body a little while to get back to normal. I have had positive ovulation test for the last couple of months .

I can't wait for this AF to finish, it's really heavy this month and i've got back ache too.

Are you using OV tests?

finally came this morning. I don't know whether to cry with the disapointment of not being pg or to cheer for the fact my AF has finally arrived

My oh seems happy about it but i think he is looking forward to the bd bit. I am going to start OV tests this month as last month was a bit of a hit and miss. I used them with my last 2 pregnancies and they really helped. I am also using mymonthlycycles.com