I feel so .. well, just like it's not my month

_Alice_ · Apr 1st, 2008, 14:45 PM

I woke up today, and i just feel it's totally not my month. Since i had my first natural period on Thursday 13th March 2008, we've BD every day, sometimes twice .. i guessed that i would be ovulating around Thursday last week. I've had a very high (sometimes unreachable) open cervix, and today it's a little lower, and has a little dip in it. I'm trying not to get excited .. and i haven't had any symptoms, except Sunday afternoon on two occasions where i had short stabbing pains in my womb area ... i don't want to get excited, and i want to stop thinking about it ... arrrghhhhh

!!!! Im tearing my hair out!!!!

We have been doing everything right ... were into our fifth month now .. it's got to happen soon hasn't it??!?!?!

Sinead · Apr 1st, 2008, 14:53 PM

It will happen soon and you seem to have a lot of bd-ing, which is always a good thing

_Alice_ · Apr 1st, 2008, 14:56 PM

This waiting is killing me though. We have BD at least once a day since my last period, is has to be a good thing?! What if i didn't ovulate?! What if i never have or ever will? What if my tubes are blocked? What is i don't have a long enough luteal phase? What if i don't have a frikking womb?!?!?! ARRGHH

sairmare · Apr 1st, 2008, 15:14 PM

Ahh bless ya! I feel the frustration too!!!

Rumpskin · Apr 1st, 2008, 15:26 PM

Oh darling, try and relax a bit (you will be saying exactly the same to me in a week or so!

)

Stressing about it will do you or your body no good.

Here is a hug to help

hayz1981 · Apr 1st, 2008, 15:51 PM

This so could be your month - try to stay positive.

I know how you feel - it's the unknown that's so annoying. If someone could just say, look you are 100% going to get pregnant but it's going to take you another 5 months, I would be fine with that. I just want to know for sure!

So many people just take a little bit longer - 5 months feels like forever to you now but you're still well within the band of 'normal time to conceive'. And like I said, this might be your month. Really hope it is.

You're doing the right thing - lots of bd-ing!!!

Apr 1st, 2008, 14:45 PM	#1
_Alice_ Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Posts: 827	I feel so .. well, just like it's not my month I woke up today, and i just feel it's totally not my month. Since i had my first natural period on Thursday 13th March 2008, we've BD every day, sometimes twice .. i guessed that i would be ovulating around Thursday last week. I've had a very high (sometimes unreachable) open cervix, and today it's a little lower, and has a little dip in it. I'm trying not to get excited .. and i haven't had any symptoms, except Sunday afternoon on two occasions where i had short stabbing pains in my womb area ... i don't want to get excited, and i want to stop thinking about it ... arrrghhhhh !!!! Im tearing my hair out!!!! We have been doing everything right ... were into our fifth month now .. it's got to happen soon hasn't it??!?!?!

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Apr 1st, 2008, 14:53 PM	#2
Sinead Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Manchester Posts: 2,698	It will happen soon and you seem to have a lot of bd-ing, which is always a good thing

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Apr 1st, 2008, 14:56 PM	#3
_Alice_ Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Posts: 827	This waiting is killing me though. We have BD at least once a day since my last period, is has to be a good thing?! What if i didn't ovulate?! What if i never have or ever will? What if my tubes are blocked? What is i don't have a long enough luteal phase? What if i don't have a frikking womb?!?!?! ARRGHH

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Apr 1st, 2008, 15:14 PM	#4
sairmare Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: England Posts: 172	Ahh bless ya! I feel the frustration too!!!

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Apr 1st, 2008, 15:26 PM	#5
Rumpskin Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7,261	Oh darling, try and relax a bit (you will be saying exactly the same to me in a week or so!) Stressing about it will do you or your body no good. Here is a hug to help

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Apr 1st, 2008, 15:51 PM	#6
hayz1981 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 1,261	This so could be your month - try to stay positive. I know how you feel - it's the unknown that's so annoying. If someone could just say, look you are 100% going to get pregnant but it's going to take you another 5 months, I would be fine with that. I just want to know for sure! So many people just take a little bit longer - 5 months feels like forever to you now but you're still well within the band of 'normal time to conceive'. And like I said, this might be your month. Really hope it is. You're doing the right thing - lots of bd-ing!!!

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