Uhh i've had a terrible night

Well OH was hiding something from me.. next thing i find out is he's messaging his ex.. i flipped!! i'm not sure if i over-reacted though, he didn't flirt with her and he did talk about me to her... and told her where we live and pretty much everything that's happened/happening in our personal life! i'm so angry at him!
I don't know why anyone would talk to their ex randomly after years if they were happy with their current situation...

He did get a bit nasty, as I've had a faint FAINT well i think... my eyes may have been seeing things, i see lines on all tests these days!... he told me i'm probably not pregnant and wont be for ages as it's taking too long, that i'm going mad and we'll probably never have children at this rate .. he's just not optimistic anymore, our chemical pregnancy hit him hard too
I've got really bad pains in my uterus too... not period pains though... its like OV pains but in my uterus

Do you think i over-reacted? should i go and give him a cuddle we've been rock solid for so long now.. this is our first ever row and i love him so much

Thanks girls, sorry for the long rant

xxx

i definetly think you should go talk to him!

i kno it looks bad him talkin to his ex and all but he did talk about you. PLUS hes trying to have children with YOU, not her. im not saying dont be cautious but dont accuse, you know? he really didnt do anything.
But on the other side, you should tell him you dont like that he didnt mention it to you.
just keep an eye on the situation. =)

aaand did you post a pic of the hpt? i wanna seeeeee!
but i definetly think he owes you an apology about the comments he made about not getting/being pregnant. So0o0o0o not cool!

i need some help!
okay so im new to this sorry i dont know how to post in the right place yet!!
i had my last period finish on the 18th of dec and a OPK said i was ovulating on the 31st of december on the 31st of dec me and partner had sex and 1st of jan too. anyway on 6th jan had some brownish spotting, very little, then over day go ever so slightly more and a pinky red in colour til it stopped that night i had a cramp in my stomach but lower my friend says it implantation bleeding but i not so sure anyone help me?? thanks
p.s sorry for the essay lol

He's asleep at the moment but i'll talk when he wakes up i think

I was more mad because he lied to me, i asked what he was upto but because he blatently tried to hide his screen i was like what the hell... and he said he was leaving me a cute email but he wasn't argh.

I don't think he would ever cheat on me.. he's not like that at all.. he didn't even loose his virginity to me until his 20's, and he says he never wants anyone other than me.

I just hate being worried, or insecure.

I'll post up a pic later it's a bit faint though, i'll try the macro on my camera and see if i can pick it up!
I'm testing on Sunday if i can wait... or might wait until middle of next week, i spend too much on pregnancy tests

& don't worry, he's already been crying his eyes out telling me he's sorry, he knows it hurt me a lot.

He's half asleep but trying to cuddle upto me in his sleep

Maybe i've just been a stroppy cow lol

xxx

Hi, you might want to start a seperate thread on it.. as this is under my thread which is about something completely different lol.

Brown or pink spotting can be implantation.. but then again i've also had it but followed by negatives... it's a waiting game really.. iv got some weird crampy twinges in my uterus too.. Good luck & test when your due on x

thanks and i would if i had any idea how to start a new one lol
when it comes to anything with computers im useless
sorry to steal your

I agree with anv7... i was going to say much the same as her, hope you feel better soon after your chat.

lol don't worry, if you go back to the TTC forum
http://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/
and click the blue button at the top of all the threads where it says "new thread" you can start your own thread

x

I'd definitely go talk to him, and give him a cuddle. But if I were you - I wouldn't have taken it lightly either. OK, he talked to her, but he shouldn't have shared your personal life with his ex girlfriend OR lied to you, in my opinion.

I really hope that was a you saw! to you!

thankyou ever so much! and good luck with your testing