Impatient - Page 2

Srrme · Jan 7th, 2010, 21:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Embo78

I just had to have a look at this thread because the first thing that comes to mind when I think about myself right now is "impatient!!"
It is also my first month officially TTC and I'm only on CD 4!! I've heard how bad the two week wait is but I'm already impatient lol!! Just trying to keep calm, eating well, exercising and waiting to start the BD!! My OH isn't feeling very well at mo and all I can think about is the impending BDing and that he better be well enough to start!! How selfish of me!!
Glad I'm not the only impatient mummy!!
Em x

Oh, I know what you mean! I was obsessed as soon as OH and I decided to TTC. My OH was feeling sick too not too long ago, and I thought the same exact thing!

I just hope we don't miss O this month, so I don't know when it is yet.

Srrme · Jan 7th, 2010, 21:04 PM

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Originally Posted by anv7

they are! we should be buddies! haha

We definitely should!

memes12 · Jan 7th, 2010, 21:57 PM

This is also my first cycle trying to conceive number 2 and although I am not charting or taking temps, I am keeping track of cm. I didn't want to start charting or taking temps right away as that just seemed to be even more stressful.

I have to say that I feel absolutely overwhelmed! I am worried that I am not going to bd during the right time or day and going to miss the egg. Or perhaps not even ovulate as this is my second month since I've stopped taking bc.

Not to mention, we have seemed to tell just about everyone we know that we're trying to conceive so I just feel that there is a huge amount of pressure on me. That was a big mistake to begin with!

Ahhh.. I just need to relax! This is our first cycle. If it doesn't happen this month, we can always try again next month!

vermeil · Jan 7th, 2010, 23:27 PM

Hello Ladies,

My personal philosophy is, relaxing is quite important for those TTC. I know all too well how easy it is to start over analysing everything. If temping and using FF gives you something to focus on and keeps you busy, then go for it. If it starts becoming an obsession or irritates your partner, then it's better to take a step back and breathe

It's perfectly NORMAL to take up to a year for a BFP. 18 months is not unheard of. Those who get pregnant within 3 months are the exception. Taking longer does NOT mean there's something wrong with you. If you think that's unfair, just imagine how over populated the world would be if everyone got pregnant every time they had sex. EEEK! So I'm actually grateful it typically takes a while

So my advice is.... chill! Very hard I know

But I often hear of ladies getting their BFPs when they just relax and take it easy. Stress is our body's natural reaction to danger. Our bodies are amazing and won't start creating life when it thinks we're not safe.

It took us 7 months. My sister 13 months. My sister's friend 17 months.

Sooo have fun and relax in this exciting time of your lives!

Embo78 · Jan 10th, 2010, 11:44 AM

I struggle to relax, I'm a pain in the backside!! When i get into something I go all out!! Trying my best tho!!

Jan 7th, 2010, 21:57 PM	#13
memes12 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: California Posts: 413	This is also my first cycle trying to conceive number 2 and although I am not charting or taking temps, I am keeping track of cm. I didn't want to start charting or taking temps right away as that just seemed to be even more stressful. I have to say that I feel absolutely overwhelmed! I am worried that I am not going to bd during the right time or day and going to miss the egg. Or perhaps not even ovulate as this is my second month since I've stopped taking bc. Not to mention, we have seemed to tell just about everyone we know that we're trying to conceive so I just feel that there is a huge amount of pressure on me. That was a big mistake to begin with! Ahhh.. I just need to relax! This is our first cycle. If it doesn't happen this month, we can always try again next month!

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Jan 7th, 2010, 23:27 PM	#14
vermeil Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Montreal Posts: 574	Hello Ladies, My personal philosophy is, relaxing is quite important for those TTC. I know all too well how easy it is to start over analysing everything. If temping and using FF gives you something to focus on and keeps you busy, then go for it. If it starts becoming an obsession or irritates your partner, then it's better to take a step back and breathe It's perfectly NORMAL to take up to a year for a BFP. 18 months is not unheard of. Those who get pregnant within 3 months are the exception. Taking longer does NOT mean there's something wrong with you. If you think that's unfair, just imagine how over populated the world would be if everyone got pregnant every time they had sex. EEEK! So I'm actually grateful it typically takes a while So my advice is.... chill! Very hard I know But I often hear of ladies getting their BFPs when they just relax and take it easy. Stress is our body's natural reaction to danger. Our bodies are amazing and won't start creating life when it thinks we're not safe. It took us 7 months. My sister 13 months. My sister's friend 17 months. Sooo have fun and relax in this exciting time of your lives!

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Jan 10th, 2010, 11:44 AM	#15
Embo78 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,331	I struggle to relax, I'm a pain in the backside!! When i get into something I go all out!! Trying my best tho!!

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