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Old Mar 28th, 2008, 11:22 AM   #1
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Got a BFN this morning which I expected but I did the test anyway
Came of BCP in December, had period in December and in January and none since, earlier this month I started to chart temps largely out of curiosity. The temps suggested ovultaion and me now being 13DPO and due AF on Sunday but I really don't know whether to trust that, why would I be there now? I'm not sure I really believe the temps and am thinking I'll go to the doctors next week if still no AF. I'm also hoping for AF, I just want the confirmation that I'm not pregnant so I can move on and continue to try. I'm on cycle day 71 for goodness sake, my periods were regular before BCP and I have no symptoms of there being anything wrong with me. I know it's not abnormal but I'm fed up and frustrated by this, really frustrated. Blah!
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I'm also wondering if I should not be TTC as my partner proposed this week and we're planning a wedding now! We want to do it in the next 12 months (he said he doesn't believe in long engagements) and are looking at November, do I really want to be heavily pregnant at my wedding? I don't know. I don't mind being a bit pregnant, we hadn't planned a big church and fuss type do, just registry office and something in the "cheap and cheerful" category (actually I don't even need that, I'm happy going to the registry office any day and taking a witness of the streets if that means we're married!) so I am all confused. I also look at how long it takes people to concieve and think why not just keep trying anyway, probably wont be pregnant by November anyway!!
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Old Mar 28th, 2008, 11:36 AM   #2
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Wow congrats hun on the engagement. That is something to look forward to and maybe with all the hustle and bustle of preparing for the wedding it will take your mind of TTC. How long have you been trying? Come on hun stay positive. You can do this!
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Old Mar 28th, 2008, 11:38 AM   #3
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Congratulations on engagement I know what you mean about the wedding, i really wanna wear a lovely dress but am waiting until after I've had baby but wot if i have to wait 4ever!! I bet if i buy dress and book everything i will get Might try it - it would be worth it for
Sorry about your BFN - wot a nightmare being left in limbo! Maybe go docs just for a check up?
Hope you're sorted soon!
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