I sat there in the meeting today staring at her, she was as fat as could be and stuffing her face with cookies and soda. I was so jealous. I tried to be happy for her but all I could do was fake a smile and try to focus on the meeting. I know I just want this so bad because its not so easy for me like it was her. I want to be the bigger person. Listening to them talk about their new babies just makes me want to cry. I tell myself its ok and I am in no rush. Now why can't I just believe myself?

Aw you will get your soon! I know how hard it can be...takes all your strength not to jump up and yell "WHY NOT ME?". We are here for you Stay strong! It will be your time soon!

It is getting harder and harder to do my job lately. I work with pregnant teens. We all have been there. I always ask why not me?

Some times I honestly think I will never be pregnant. I know I can always adopt but I wish things could be easier.

gosh it is so hard to be happy and put on a smile when you're around happy pregnant ladies, especially when they are acquaintances. must be so tough to not think of yourself and 'what would it feel like' to be in their position.

Cheer up, chick it'll be you soon...i just know it! We can do this thing

Ya, my OH thinks that there is a chance he may be infertile. We are waiting longer before getting tested. Adoption is a great thing too...but not exactly the same you know? I want to experience being pregnant...and giving birth to life.

Hey justme, it'll be ok. I know how tough it is, but you need to try not to get too stressed about it. (now why can't I take that advice!) we all know what its like and we're here for you. If I could come and take you for a cuppa I would, but i can't so have a good (it'll make you feel better) and a and a instead!

I love your "patience dust" ticker Nic. I soooo need that.

Believe me justme, i was at the very back of the patience queue the day I was born. In fact I think they had run out by the time they got to me!!!
We live in a 24/7 society and us women are a force to be reckoned with running departments, businesses and homes all over the world. I think that's why when we don't concieve within a couple of months we start to think something is wrong with us. We accept it takes 9 months for the baby to develop but don't accept it can take a year or two to fall pg in the first place. I know i don't!!! Arrrrghhhhh!!! Come on BFPs, we need cheering up!