Murphy98

Hi guys,

We are on month 4 of TTC and are starting to feel concerned even though we know everyone says not to worry for a year (a year OMG!).

So......here is a logistical question for you. We were going to try the every second day method of Bd'ing this month but DH was sick so our schedule is all out of whack. We WERE going to try Day 8, 10, 12, 14 and 15 (MY Ovulation stick double lined at Day 15 last month). But now we need to revamp our plan. We got in Day 8 to get the ball rolling but missed Day 10. Which do you think would be best:

Try Day 11 and Day 12, rest Day 13 then try again Day 14 and 15
or
Skip tonight go for Day 11, 13, 15

We have no idea if DH has a low sperm count so we don't know what is too much, too little. This is harder than we thought it would be.

I can't believe I am asking about when to have sex on the internet

Thanks!!
Murphy

luckyme225

I would do the 11,12,14,15 option if your DH is feeling better. Good luck!!

WannaB

Do you get any other signs you are ovulating besides a +opk like pain or cm? I would still be bding up to a couple of days after the +opk as O can be anywhere from 12-48 hours after it. Its really up to how OH is feeling, and yourself, but every couple of days will cover it, but you would need to keep it up till after you know definatley for sure you've ovulated.

Murphy98

Thanks Wanna -I didn't know that about ovulation I though we only had 12 hrs....very good to know. I will add Bding after too....hm...that might be too many days in a row - I'll have to figure that in.

I think Im leaning in that direction too luckyme...I would rather err on the side of caution.