superp123

So I figured because my cycle tends to vary a bit we should do lots of matress dancing from yesterday until the 31. I haven't tried the ovulation test yet cause I didn't want to waste them. (I know that sounds stupid)
Any way point being it was very strange... We've been together forever, 12years, and have a very good sexual relationship, but the preasure was definately there I think for both of us last night. It took me and him over an hour to have an orgasm. Which for us is rare, we know each other pretty damn well that way... Truth is I think it took us both that long just to relax enough to get there. LOL Please tell me this is normal...
Needless to say we were both up till midnight, of corse he fell asleep right away... I stayed up watching TVland reruns and crashed about 1:30 or so. Then wouldn't ya know it! My youngest nephew (3) wakes up at 5am screaming and crying for me. Turns out his leg just fell asleep. Poor thing. So I didn't get too much sleep and neither DH. Hopefully tonight will be a little better. Oy!
So besides the awkwardness and the no sleep I do have some questions for you all... things I thought of as I was trying to sleep.
Question:
Is it better to BD every night or every other?
Is it true that you should lay on your back after (sort of keep the swimmers in )?
Any one postition better than the other?
Time of day matter?
Sorry gals, I'm just trying to help mother nature along here. My clock is ticking, I'll be 30 in 3 months.

tansey

OMG i am 36 this year!!
I'll let you off. They say missionary and doggy are good as his wand is right up by your cervix, and it may help swimmers if you lie back or upside down as some people do.
BDing every night when you OV is what your supposed to do but not always possible or best as you will both get tired and sore. can live a few days in the right environment so every other night is fine! Good luck