LouiseClare

Unfortunately we have decided to stop TTC. We've had a few relationship issues recently, I was hoping we'd sort things out, but we haven't. OH is insisting on wearing a condom now. I'm really upset, I was hoping he'd change his mind but he wants to wait until things are better between us. I do understand what he's saying but I'm devastated. I've spent so many hours on here recently, reading people’s threads and occasionally writing my own. I don't know what I’m going to look at on the internet now.

I'm 29 years now, I know that isn't old but I always thought I’d have a little family by now. I was so excited when we decided to TTC, my OH was excited too, and we even bought baby clothes and books which I've hidden in a drawer now. I can't look at them.

I've started taking BCP again (cerazette).

I will really miss everyone on here.

I hope you all get your soon.



*****UPDATE******

Thank you for all your messages.

Me and OH had a great chat over the weekend and sorted out loads of things. We're going to TTC within the next six months, but firstly we're going to treat ourselves to a holiday in the Maldives in May, we thought this would be our last chance to have a relaxing holiday for a while (we're hoping to have a new arrival next year)
So.......... I'm going to hang around here if thats ok.

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tansey

Oh no - I'm gutted for you!!
If things aren't great though, maybe it is for the best!
You're still young so don't worry too much xx

Emsi76

I feel terrible for you!

It maybe that a break from trying is what you both need to realise that you do want one again!

I hope everything works out!

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SwissMiss

ah noooooooooo! I'm so terribly sorry for you!! I'm also 29, I hear ya! The ol' clock's started to tick pretty flippin loud... I hope everything works out - you could always hang out in WTT, no?
We'll be thinking of you, sweets. All the best

danielle19

Oh no so sorry to hear that hun x
Hope you guys can work it out x
Take care x

mexi

i really feel 4 u,

but i pray that the longing to TTC will make things go right again.

I hope all things work out soon

Samo

so sorry, sweet. Hope things work out between the two of you...

pixielou

Sorry to hear this, hope you get things sorted out

toot

So sorry for you, let me give you a little message,I am 35, my dh and I have been ttc for about 2 years after I had my tubal reversal and it has brought so much stress between us, we would never fight befor but man we had some really bad fights when we were in the mist of ttc, so I told my dh that I was done I didn't want ttc anymore beacuse I could not take the stress and what it was doing to US. So after about 6 months of not ttc we were back to a wonderful marrige again, we are also back on the road of ttc it has been a very LONG road for us but we did get a BFP in Oct of 07 but it ended in a m/c, I will keep you in my prayers, take care and I will be watching for you to come back on the road of ttc again. Right now it does suck but take the time that your marrige needs and in time you will be back and get your BFP.

superp123

I haven't been on very long but I'm also 29 and I can totally relate. I wanted to let you know that I'm sorry to hear about this too. Hope you guys can sort it out and get back to TTC soon. And I'm sending you lots of good thoughts.