Got a positive OV strip on Monday, BD Monday twice, then last night, but tonight I really do not feel like it. I feel a bit sick, a bit run down and completely not in the mood.

Am I ruining my chances?

come on Ella ! one more go

I don't think you are ruining your chances. You did BD the last two nights...

Oh I am just so tired...feel sick and everything.

I probably need some psyching up

but i don't thing you will ruin your chances if you don't either...what is suppose to happen will happen anyway.

TTC is hard, and trying to find the energy to BD every night (or in our case it was every other night) can be stressing. You've done well this month, Monday and yesterday, honestly wouldn't worry to much if it doesn't happen tonight--it doesn't mean you've ruined your chances at all

We had done it religiously every other night. Except for Sunday, after the football, neither of us were in the mood. I thought I was not ovulating anyway. So, around the fertile window it will have been Wednesday, Friday, Monday, Tuesday, then if tonight Wednesday as well.

I might just see if I can wake myself up a bit. It would make me feel a bit better but you are right. It is hard.

Still sounds like you've done a pretty good job this month Honestly by the end of the second month TTC we had pretty much given up on the every other day thing, it was just too much work....not even sure how I ended up pregnant in month three because we did less that month than any other month

Good luck! I hope this is your month

Lets not forget the permies live longer as well

I think you have done rather well to be fair. It amazes me how some ppl manage to get pg when they only do it once during a whole cycle lol It's almost like the immaculate conception or something.
See how you feel later, you may feel abit more in the mood and less sick, but you seem to have done enough around ov and spermies do live for a while. Good luck chick, hope the spermies caught that eggy