Hi all

I'm new to this website but would be really grateful for any advice you are able to give me please.
We have a little girl who is 13mths old now and because my husband has been in Afghanistan since last Dec, when he came back for 2 weeks earlier this month we decided to TTC as he will not be home again until June. I bought the clearblue fertility monitor to maximise our chances etc and had sex several times when it said I was about to ovulate/ovulating so I'm sure we did it at the right time.
I stupidly convinced myself I was pregnant as I had sore boobs and some other symptoms similar to when I was expecting last time but AF arrived today and I am gutted.
I got pregnant first time we tried before and as we had sex at the right time this month I'm now worried that there's something wrong - it's not helped by the fact that we won't be able to try again until July.
I'd really appreciate any advice or reassurance and as DH is away I haven't got anyone to talk to about this!
Many thanks in advance.
X

Oh poor you, with hubby away it must be really hard!! What you have to remember hun is that even for a healthy normal couple who is TTC, it isnt abnormal for them to take up to a year to conceive!! U were obviously very lucky when u conceived ur daughter. Easy to say hun, but stress also can play a part in the TTC process, I know this very well!! I would try and not get too stressed out about everything and focus on your little girl and welcoming hubby home later in the year. Give him a homecoming he will never forget!! I really dont think there will be anything wrong with either of you, but we are here if you need adice!! All the best, Candice xx

Thanks for your kind words - much appreciated and I know that you're right but it's so hard!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you!!!

U were very lucky catching straight away with your daughter!!!!! Roll on July when DH returns...only 3 more months of waiting...an April baby sounds cool!!!! xx