suzan

My boss just came in and asked me if I was ok as I was on sick leave for 2 days. I was like "yea, I am ok, thanks for asking"

Then he goes "any new pregnancy? it worries me about your pregnancies"

Worry what? Why should you worry you @$$****? You shouldn't even ask! All because of you some people I didnt have much contact with know that I miscarried TWICE and that I needed a break the second time I got pregnant because of my first miscarriage. I think someone should cut his tongue!! Enough with that stupid lady from HR dealing with the leave requests..she just spread the news about the reason of me requesting unpaid leave due to the possibility of miscarrying! why are people into gossip? I don't mind them gossiping about celebrities, happy news, things within the company.. but about my personal life? or any other's personal life?? they should mind their own business!

I mean, leave me alone with my issues.. but worry you? I can't wait to resign.. darn the new company! when the he** are they going to send me the new offer?? They have been saying it needs a high level signature! HURRY UP!!!!!!!!!!!

And when I resign, I will shove everything up my boss's @** and I hope he can worry about that instead worrying about if I get pregnant again! (Can't believe I said that but I MEAN IT!) ARGH!! the hypocrisy!! we have had issues, and I am sure he doesn't mean any word he says!

What's worse, there were 2 people in the office when he mentioned it. (Sorry girls for this smiley, but I am so freaking mad I wish I did that to him!)

JUST SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!

anita665

How insensitive!! I think I'd have gone med at him!!

NeyNey

Can't see the smilies sweetie.

Anyway, what a down right pig!! That is such an awful thing to say.
What...he's worried about you taking leave?

That JACKASS!!

Omi

What a p**ck!!

Thats so insensitive and wrong. Also, i was under the impression HR cannot divulge personal information??

I hope you get to switch offices soon, bunny..you dont need that s**t!!

Here's a hug,

lousielou

Poor you - your boss sounds like an arse ... not an appropriate comment at all!

If you can prove the HR woman has been gossiping you, you may be able to put in a complaint - there are strict laws on confidentiality and she could (quite rightly) get a disciplinary for abusing her position. Sending hugs, keep your chin up :-)

avistar

vent all you want! work drives me nuts too at times...people don't have anything better to do at work evidently...try not to let it get to you, I am sure they aren't stressing or worrying how they made you feel. You gotta take care of yourself, that is # 1 priority.

I would just not tell anyone my business...why one is taking personal leave is a personal issue.

Nic-Flowers

What a totally inappropriate thing to say. I want to cut his tongue out. And what kind of pathetic woman feels that she has the right to tell people why you needed leave? Point me in the right direction....I want to kill them... mean people suck.

elles28

Mynxie

sweetie, what they're doing isn't legal. HR records are confidential.

Thinking of you xxxxxxxx

suzan

Thx girls. Legal or illegal, that company sux!
If I do something I will get fired! I will resign soon anyway, so better resign than getting fired.

Darn it, those smileys in my post arent showing!!!!!!!!