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Mar 21st, 2008, 00:48 AM
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i was chatting to a friend today and was talking about having children and marriage.
She says that she wants her babys b4 she is married bcoz she wants her kids there to see her and her OH unite their relationship
and i was saying i prefer to get married 1st and then children bcoz of the way i was brought up to have them in wed-lock, plus if u have children 1st u might not be able to afford the wedding u want?
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Mar 21st, 2008, 00:49 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I would love for my bump to have come after I was married but that can't be helped. I guess it's all a matter of personal choice/circumstance  |
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Mar 21st, 2008, 00:52 AM
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Mar 21st, 2008, 00:53 AM
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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH  I would love for my bump to have come after I was married but that can't be helped. I guess it's all a matter of personal choice/circumstance | yeah totally true it does depend on wot circumstance! if my bambino came b4 i was married i wudnt mind! | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 21st, 2008, 00:54 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hmm.. We've been very up and down since I fell pregnant. Even though we'd been together 2 years it was still a VERY trying time as it wasn't planned. I think we need to sort our relationship out before we think about marriage now |
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Mar 21st, 2008, 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH Hmm.. We've been very up and down since I fell pregnant. Even though we'd been together 2 years it was still a VERY trying time as it wasn't planned. I think we need to sort our relationship out before we think about marriage now | fair enuf, that is sensible if u 2 r up n down all the time and not getting married ofr the sake of the baby.
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Mar 21st, 2008, 01:05 AM
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Mar 21st, 2008, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH Congrats! | congrats to u too... got any names for ur little one?  | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 21st, 2008, 02:13 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | were not engaged or married yet but weve been together for nearly 5 years and living together for over 4. i always thought id want to be married first but were happy as we are at the mo i know children are expensive but id rather a child than paying for a wedding ceremony and i know we will get married some day  |
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Mar 21st, 2008, 07:02 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | we had a wee boy 3.5 yrs ago and only got married before xmas and I wouldnt have changed it for the world |
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