well this evening i had some spotting.. i have a feeling AF is going to come soon or tomorrow! i do have a very irregular cycle.. so its kinda of a guessing game for me i guess.. but i havent had sore.. boobs.. and i had a little cramping but not like i usually get.. before AF i guess we will see for sure tomorrow.. my Fiance thinks.. hes shooting blanks but i dont want him to think that way.. i dont know what to do... any advice? this is kinda getting frustrating and i just feel like giving up somtimes..

How long have you been TTC sweetie?
It's hard when you don't have a regular cycle. Do you chart your
BBT or use OPK's? All of these things help to pin point your O time.
If you have doubts about your OH's SC then you can always get a test
done to check the #'s. Just to put your mind at ease.

i agree with Ney Ney about charting etc. I have irregular cycles in that they range from 24-36days, my ticker is always changed to my last cycle. I've been ttc for 7 months and iim on my third month charting and first month using a clear blue fertility monitor to help pinpoint ovulation It took a couple of months to get into charting but i've now realised my luteal phase is too short and ive started to take Vitamin B6, i wouldn't have known this without charting, which would explain why we havn't concieved yet. I think charting/cbfm has helped keep me sane, if i do have to go back to drs ill be armed with loadsa info