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Mar 16th, 2008, 22:25 PM
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| I wont BD if my DH has been drinking rum. Who need bloody viagra, just try rum!! | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 16th, 2008, 23:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | OMG!!! I thought it was just me  My DH goes for .................................................. well lets just say it is one hell of a long time! I'm with a few others, if he's been drinking then no BD 
Seriously though, my man cannot actually finish (ifykwim) without doing it manually, which does cause a bit of an issue when TTC. It is one of the side affects of the antidepressants he was on. He's no longer on them so finger crossed it gets better.
But, geez, I'd love it to be quick just the once  |
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Mar 16th, 2008, 23:48 PM
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|  loving this thread...!!!! love it long and short (??? you know what i mean) but sometimes you just want a quicky in case the egg gets bored of waiting too....... | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 16th, 2008, 23:56 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | DH varies, dependant on the mood!!!! However, if it too long for me I start think about is it the right time, if we do catch when will baby be due, etc, etc. TTC is getting the better of me I'm afraid. Its worse, when he wants to waste MY little spermies by releasing them somewhere else on my boby if you know what I mean????????????? |
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Mar 17th, 2008, 02:22 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | DH is pretty good. As i'm approaching it gets him pretty excited, and he can pick up on my vibe so he knows whether to finish up shortly after me or to keep going to bring me to round 2
That said, there are some nights where we finish and I'm pushing him off so I can go to sleep lol |
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Mar 17th, 2008, 02:40 AM
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| My partner last forever..........I'm not complaining, (well just a little) he says that its about the intimacy and the emotional feeling involved as opposed to the 'grand finale'. He doesn't feel frustrated or anything. I do agree with him to a certain extent, but I also find it slightly insultive too..........especially as we wanna have a baby and most of the time we're missing the magic ingredient!!!!!!! | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 17th, 2008, 02:45 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Glad im not the only one with this issue! Sometimes definatley too long, i just wanna be done and go to sleep sometimes  |
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Mar 17th, 2008, 07:47 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i can relate big time haha but sometimes hes a minute man  hehe |
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Mar 17th, 2008, 12:22 PM
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|  Im surprised with this thread... I think it lasting a long time is a good thing. |
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Mar 17th, 2008, 12:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Haha ive only just noticed this ... blimey what you ladies get up to whilst im away.
My OH depends entirely on how long ive deprived him for .... and how often we do it. If we do it more than once a day, by the third time it takes houuuuuuuurs lol. Generally he has great self control so lasts as long as i want him to!!
Saying that ive noticed this really weird thing, when we BD on the sofa he never seems to be able to last long at all ... how strange!! |
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