Originally Posted by Ganiggle

My first month TTC!!!!!

Today is CD 12. Is this prime conception time? I hope so because tonight... WE'RE DOIN IT!!!! wooo!!!! I'm going to try either mineral oil or canola oil as lubricant because from what I hear they're the best artificial lubricant next to preseed, which isn't an option for me at this moment because I have to order it online.

Few Questions:

Is it a myth that you should raise your pelvis up for about 20 minutes after sex in order to direct the sperm to the party? Or is that something I should definitely do?

Also, the last time he ejactulated was the night of March 9th. Should this be okay? I read somewhere that if sperm are in there too long they start to die. I dont think 2 days is too long, but would they have replenished by now?

Is any position okay? Or should we stick with missionary? Are there certain positions I should avoid because they prevent spermies from making it to the party?

Thanks gals! You guys rock!