What the hell is wrong with our world these days? - VENTING!
I am FREAKING MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's like I feel I want to shout at and kick those two stupids girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been trying since 1 year to get pregnant.. oh no!! wait!!! ---> accurately it has been 13 months.. YES, 13 STUPID MONTHS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And what do I get? 2 miscarriages!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Want to know what the hell did those stupid B****** DO??????
I will tell you what they did:
First idiot:
A girl I know was newly married when I met her. She was worried as her period was late. She told me that she will abort the baby if it turned out for her being pregnant. I was like WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!??!?!!??!?! .. As I was worried.. I called her after a couple of days and thank GOD she got her period...
She calls me this past Thursday asking from me info. I was like "what?" She wanted an advice from me on how to get rid of a baby.. I was like, "whose baby is that?" She was like "my friend! she lives in another country but she doesn't know what to do and doesnt want to have a baby now".. I was like "for sure isn't urs? I remember u wanted to abort if u were pregnant last time" then she says "noo, it's not mine, how could I do something like that, that's unethical and not human"
THE IRONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ahh, and how the hell would I know how to abort?? she said that since I had a miscarriage I would know.. hell b**** I miscarried, I didnt kill my baby so f*** off u and ur friend!!
I still dont know if she was the pregnant one or not. But friends of her say yes.. Oh well
Second idiot:
A friend emails me saying that her friend is pregnant by mistake.. Her period was late for 1 months and then she did a test and came positive so would make her 8 weeks. She wants to abort. That the hell is wrong with today's world?! I dont understand.!
Then I was like: "Her baby has a heartbeat by now.. the little nails and fingers must be starting to show too..etc" Then my stupid friends says "She will do an x-ray and say that she didnt know she was pregnant and prefers to abort it too"
THIS IS MAKING ME MAD. I AM AT MY STUPID WORK NERVOUS AS HELL. I DONT NEED THIS NOW. DONT THEY THINK BEFORE DOING SOMETHING? THERE ARE SOME WOMEN THAT DONT DESERVE HAVING THAT MIRACLE FROM GOD. HOW CAN THEY EXPECT TO BE BLESSED AGAIN AFTER DOING ALL THIS? I WISH THEY WERE HERE I WOULD HAVE KICKED THEIR FACE!!!
SORRY GIRLS.. BUT AFTER SO MUCH TIME TTC AND MISCARRYING, THIS HAS MADE MY DAY NOW. OH WAIT.. NOT DAY.. WEEK!! STARTING ON THURSDAY AND NOW TODAY??
LOTS OF LADIES DYING TO HAVE A BABY, AND OTHERS KILLING THEM? LIFE IS NOT FAIR
I understand why you feel so mad. It makes my blood boil too. If people don't want a child then they should be more careful. I have been ttc for nearly 7 months and have had one m/c, so not as long as you. But I get so angry to hear of people having 'accidents' then aborting.
And how insensitive to say that you would know how to abort as you have had m/c. That would have, there and then, ended my friendship with that person. I'm so sorry you had to take that.
I completely agree with you, this is one thing that REALLY winds me up! It took us nearly 2 years to get pregnant at all (and even this was with IVF), I can't believe how so many people forget that their "pregnancy" is another life which also needs consideration. I agree with Schmelly - if you're responsible enough to be having sex, then you should be responsible enough to accept the consequences and bring up that little bundle of joy that women all over the world are secretly wanting to steal because they can't get pregnant themselves. What a sad, sad world we live in.
There is a song that you've probably heard before but anyway if you go onto youtube and search under Kellie Coffey I would die for that - it sums up the world and the anguish of the "fertilly challenged" to a tea!
It really annoys the heck out of me when people like that simply don't appreciate what they have. I think a lot of them assume that being able to conceive and carry a pregnancy is an automatic right.
I sometimes feel that I'd just like to take from them and give to the women who appreciate instead.
They sound really immature. Why tell you all this stuff and why make up things like going for an x-ray rather than just getting on with it. I'm not against abortion because for some it really is the best or only option but I think lots of people go into it far too lightly.
do they not realise they need to take responsibilty.
some people do not think about others, and to discuss an abortion with someone who has had a MC is just terrible. i would be quite blunt and say i dont wish to discuss this matter with you, i lost a beautiful baby with a heratbeat and little fingers that i loved dearly and yet you think i would want to help you discard the smae so callolusly.
I'm so sorry you had to hear all that immaturity, they sound like a bunch of idiots. If they didn't want to have a baby at this time they should have been more careful, come on now. I'm especially sorry for the knowing how to get ride of it comments, that just makes me angry on your behalf. That was a completely terrible and COMPLETELY insensitive thing to say. I agree with you, what the hell is wrong with girls these days? That is really awful!!
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