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Mar 10th, 2008, 11:19 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Paranoia after miscarriage I decided to post my worries as sometimes i feel like i am over worrying....
Well since the miscarriage i seem to think i have every illness going, with my miscarriage i didn t get infection or anything.
And i have just ovulated... 4-5 dpo, but i have a cramping pain in my stomach, only very light and i feel full but hungry and the same time.
Also i feel like i need to wee quite frequently..... l m making myself crazy thiking oh what is it , is it something serious.
I dunno why i am doing this to myself, as i have had a vaginal scan nearly very week since the miscarriage, so if it was something serious my gnya would have noticed it i imagine.
Please tell me that some else over reacts with every twinge.... just so i don't thikin i m going crazy  |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 13:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I know hun, Im the same! I think the pain is mittelsmerz (sp?) its ovulation pain basically an can happen around ovulation before during and after
Chill out and try not to overanalyse everything you'll only over worry yoruself,
This sounds perfectly normal  Im sure your gyn would have picked up on anything bad.
Consulrting 'dr google' doesnt help either lol, so relax  You're most probably fine and dandy  | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 10th, 2008, 14:04 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by Malingo I know hun, Im the same! I think the pain is mittelsmerz (sp?) its ovulation pain basically an can happen around ovulation before during and after
Chill out and try not to overanalyse everything you'll only over worry yoruself,
This sounds perfectly normal  Im sure your gyn would have picked up on anything bad.
Consulrting 'dr google' doesnt help either lol, so relax  You're most probably fine and dandy  |
LOL.... your right about dr google, he made me give myself a diagnosis of ovary cancer..... total drama queen that i am.
I had to have a quiet word in my hear saying " you've just had a vaginal ultrasound where she saw your ovaries and everything " ...... after this miscarriage its made me into a nervous wreck at times.
Whats this whats that.... i m going to have to chill..... cos i wanna be really stress free when i get pregnant next .. |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 14:24 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hope you are okay lovely xx |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 14:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  I think what you are feeling is very normal, especially after experiencing a loss |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 18:39 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hi - I had an early MC last month and have been TTC this month and according to FF I am 4DPO and this afternoon I have developed a really bloated abdomen and have cramp style pains and I'm thinking Oh God what is this at this stage in my cycle if I am really at this stage in my cycle? When MC started last time I started with a similar pain! But don't know what to think as strange for this point in my cycle!
So, anyway, what I'm trying to say - you are not the only worrier! 
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Mar 10th, 2008, 19:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  to you hun! |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 20:14 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aw, dont worry carmen....its normal, im sure
Im not so worried now..well, rather..i expect to be quite a woorier once i get pg again... until i then i just obsess. I turned into total ttc maniac..all i think about!! Very frustrating..  
Was really annoyed on my way home from work as felt so cheated whenever saw women with small children..one even had twins babies AND a 5 year old--- argh, the greed!! I only want one..
to make it worse i realised at bus stop on way home after quick shop in asda had LOSER shoppingbags... here's what i had..: (be afraid be very afraid if this something you recognise)
1. cat litter
2. bumperpack of cat food -24 pack whiskas
3. one bottle of red wine-red chilean
4.bag of dry cat food-iams
5. refill pack of adhesive lint roller#
That made me worry.... its quite obvious I actually NEED a baby!
Chin up Carmen, just give yourself time to heal, and lots and lots of babydust to ya!!   |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | It is the fourth month since my mc and I have nausea, tiredness, bloated belly/ and I am peeing a lot. I know the symptoms can play with your mind, I am always second guessing myself, wondering if I am making myself sick...let's hope not.  |
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Mar 14th, 2008, 02:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Omi Aw, dont worry carmen....its normal, im sure
Im not so worried now..well, rather..i expect to be quite a woorier once i get pg again... until i then i just obsess. I turned into total ttc maniac..all i think about!! Very frustrating..  
Was really annoyed on my way home from work as felt so cheated whenever saw women with small children..one even had twins babies AND a 5 year old--- argh, the greed!! I only want one..
to make it worse i realised at bus stop on way home after quick shop in asda had LOSER shoppingbags... here's what i had..: (be afraid be very afraid if this something you recognise)
1. cat litter
2. bumperpack of cat food -24 pack whiskas
3. one bottle of red wine-red chilean
4.bag of dry cat food-iams
5. refill pack of adhesive lint roller#
That made me worry.... its quite obvious I actually NEED a baby!
Chin up Carmen, just give yourself time to heal, and lots and lots of babydust to ya!!   | LOL OMI,
That sounds a bit like my shopping bag minus the Red Wine... I am a white winer.
Yes my persian cat... is the spoilt baby at the moment.
But you know its true to say that this miscarriage thing does make us very vunerable... one minute we strong,next depressed, then the next over analysing everything.
When i was cleaning the bathroom i was even worrying about the chemicals in the cleaner
But i am staying positive for all us girlies this month  |
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