Hi, I'm Nicole, and I was wondering if anyone might be able to help me. I'm posting this here because I have had two losses in between the two kids I already have.

My period is due tomorrow. My LMP was November 3, ovulation on Nov. 15 (I felt it). My husband and I baby danced on the 14th and 16th of November.

Since Tuesday, I have been having what has felt like pre-period cramps. I never gets pre-period cramps until the day before my period actually arrives. The last time it happened, I was pregnant with my daughter.

I have also been checking my cervical position. On Tuesday it was high, soft, closed and wet. By Thursday, it was lowER, but not low..it was in a medium position, and slightly firm, but not hard or soft, and still wet. This morning, I checked it again, at the same time that I normally do, and it was high, soft, closed and wet again. I am actually able to remove some sticky clear/white discharge when I remove my finger.


I almost forgot to add, along with the cramping, I have been nauseous, no vomitting, have a heightened sense of smell (everything smells disgusting to me, almost to the point of vomitting). I'm moody to the point of b**chy, and find that I have no patience anymore, and find myself screaming and yelling all the time (which hasn't happened since I was pregnant with my son). I am so tired, it's not even funny, have no energy whatsoever, I can barely get up in the morning because of how heavy my body feels, and it doesn't matter if I've had 1 hour of sleep, or 11 hours of sleep. I have also been craving very salty foods.

Insight, anyone?

So, I have a few questions.

1. What position should the cervix be in that might indicate pregnancy?
2. Should the cervix be wet or dry one day prior to your period?
3. Is there any possibility that I could be pregnant?
4. When should I take a test?

Sorry about your losses hun! I ill try and answer your questions the best I can.

1. Cervix position isnt a good indication of if you are pregnant or not so I would ignore that one.
2. Its different for all women, some have cervcial mucus before their period some it has dried up by then, so again no help what so ever.
3. Definatley a chance you could be pregnant, if you have unprotected sex around your fertile time there is every chance it could happen.
4. You could test now, but it could come back a false negative, depending on when implantation occurred, there might not be enough hcg in your urine for a hpt to pick up yet. Testing after af is overdue gives you a better result, but saying that some women still dont get a +hpt till a couple of week after their period is overdue.

Fingers crossed for you hun!xxxx Let us know how you get on.

WannaB answered that beautifully. Good luck!

Good luck!