Lisa1

Hi ladies I am 35 will be 36 in feb just wondering is anyone else out there also ttc their 1st baby?

MrsJ08

Hi Lisa

Check out the thread TTC over 30 and team thread I have just started http://www.babyandbump.com/bnb-group...-conceive.html

I am 34 and TTC my first. You are not alone x

Nibbler

Hiya Lisa. I turned 35 in October just gone and also TTC #1. How long have you been trying? I have been trying since April this year.

Lisa1

Thanks Mrsjo8 I will have a look at that thread now x

Hi Nibbler we have been trying since August, i know it sounds stupid but I always thought I would never get pregnant even before I had the opportunity to try due to my age(

I know we are still young but it must be harder than being say 25 to concieve, guess im just looking some support and encouragement feel like it will always be outta my reach.

Sorry just a rant and wondered how everyone else felt about ttc at our age?

Nibbler

Hey Lisa. I understand how you feel TTC is a very emotional journey. It's like a rollercoaster. One moment you are full of hope and the next, you feel down in the dump.

I guess if I can choose, I would like to be able to do this TTC journey a whole lot younger, like in my mid-20s or something. But I hadn't even met my husband then, and I can't imagine having anyone else being the father of my children... (well, not the blokes I went out with before anyway...) After I met my DH and got married and all, there were other things that needed sorting out... like getting our own place, having a bit of saving... Suddenly, I am 35...

We may not be as young as we would like, I would like to think that we will get there though. We do see people of our age getting pregnant all around us. We just need to be there to pick each other up when we are down or feeling deflated... Hopefully we will get there soon