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Mar 8th, 2008, 20:02 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | OMG thats soooo bitchy!! it's clearly because she's jealous so don't let her upset you.  |
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Mar 8th, 2008, 20:12 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thank you everybody, you cheered me up and helped me see the jealousy. Yay! Hugs for everyone! |
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Mar 8th, 2008, 22:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Nic-Flowers  I was talking to my sister in law last night about testing in a few days, and how I feel.
She had told me my brother agreed to have anther baby...so great!
And then she started saying...
If you are peeing more than usual thats just a UTI
That feeling of nausea thats just because you ate too much
and those odd feelings in your naughty bits? Well you have sex too much and you have no feeling anyway...
So I bet you aren't PG what do you want a baby for anyway you aren't married yet.  She wasn't married either (her daughter turned 4 in DEC and she was married in June) And that really hurt me feelings no one should be torn apart piece by piece by someone that was their friend since little kid school, and married their brother! I thought she was more thoughtful than that! | girls can be nasty!! just forget what she says and think positive!! | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 8th, 2008, 22:25 PM
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| Please, whatever you do don't tell her about this little sanctuary you have called 'Baby & Bump'. She would surely ruin it for you.
She's just jealous and more to be pitied than anything else. Some people very sadly can't help themselves and it's a terrible shame that you are feeling hurt. Try not to feel hurt, just think of her words as very sad for her (and not for you). With every callous, thoughtless word she uses she is hurting herself and ruining a good friendship.
You are better than that, you are her friend. When the time is right, you can tell her how her words make you feel and point out to her that she too has brought a little child into the world and is lucky. She should appreciate how much you want a baby and look forward to both of your children being able to play together when they are older. I pity her ... and want to smack her too! Is that a bad thing?  |
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Mar 9th, 2008, 10:28 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Yep , i agree with the other girls, what a plank! I have found that ive more often been upset through this ttc period by what other people have said to me than anything else!! Ignore her and keep up your + vibes and thoughts and maybe we can get ya a bfp xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 9th, 2008, 12:52 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hmmm...I agree with the ladies here. Seems like SIL has some jealousy issues and then tries to demean you by saying things she knows will affect you negatively. Stay as fabulous as you are and stay strong! |
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Mar 9th, 2008, 23:41 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My sister is the same way, always a competition with me, we started TTC #2 and she decided to start TTC#2 too, even though she insisted she wanted no more children. Also when we got engaged she got pregnant with #1. Now we are having trouble TTC and starting all our testing this cycle and clomid next, I hav kept that from her. She will probably find out eventually.
Hang in there sometime people cna be toxic. |
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Mar 10th, 2008, 17:41 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Quote:
Originally Posted by EllaCruz God what a bitch.
*hugs*
This actually goes along with "Don't hate me but I had another abortion. I just can't afford a kid and I'm not good at taking the pill!"
Why do they say these things to us when they know how much we want to get pregnant????
<33333 | Well, I wasn't going to say it like that, but that seems to be the case. |
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Mar 11th, 2008, 03:58 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | WOW.. What a B***H!! Don't pay any attention to her. I know a few people that no matter what you say or do, they have to belittle it. I think we call them 'Debbie Downers'. And... just to let you know.. I'm not married yet either! My fiance and I will be getting married in May but we decided to get to work on this baby making sooner. So, I take personal offense to her remarks! Besides.. who is she to judge?!?
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