I have two step sons (10 and 13) who live with their mother and come to visit us regularly. No kiddiwinks of my own.
TTC for 4 months too. Came off pill last October and this is my 3rd cycle of charting, although last cycle was like a 2-in-one as I had delayed ovulation until CD39 and got AF on CD51!!!!!!! Never happened before to me, but had lots of stress including moving house that must have caused it.
I use a Clearblue Fertility Monitor and got 19 HIGH readings and 1 LOW last cycle, so am really enthusiastic about seeing a PEAK reading this time. Then I will know that I am in with a better chance than before.
I've just noticed I am actually a day behind you two, but never mind it's close enough to be cycle buddies.

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to you.