miel

i feel like i am doing all the right things .
i work out 5 days a week
i am healthy woman
WE as a couple don't smoke, don't do drugs ...
We eat right .
WE are young i think: (me 33 in april ,him 30 in june)
WE f$%^ck like rabbit when it's time
WE used pre seed, opks etc...
We have being doing for over 4 month now...
AND we are still not lucky!!!! getting the BFP!!!

Anyone else feel the same way?
ps: i think the witch is on her way for me ...so cycle #5 here we go...)

Vickie

miel, not much I can say. Unfortunately it takes some women longer than others. I hope you get your BFP soon

Omi

I know what you mean...

On a similar note: I work in social work, addictions and yesterday this girl came in for her methadone script and she has had 3 kids at 24 doing drugs!!!
She has a 7 year old which was taken off her..the 3 and 1 year old are w/her and her abusive partner , and she never went to a single pre-natal appmt before giving birth last year.... THAT made me angry!!!

Chin up though, it will happen!!... but its damned frustrating with all the waiting, and waiting..i know!

Here's some babydust for you...

niknaknat

sorry your feeling crappy chick, i can't say i know how you feel cause I'm still only in my first month of ttc. They say that for a healthy couple in their late 20's, the odds of conceiving each month are 1 in 4 raising to 1 in 6 after 30 and so on, so if you look at it like that the next couple of cycles could hold something beautiful for you. I know it must be hard for you, especially when you are doing everything right but have faith and don't be too down on yourself, your time will come chick.
Thinking of you

MissMonty

Hi Miel - I know exactly how you feel Like you we've been doing as much as we can to improve our TTC chances. I too go to the gym but only twice a week, my DH plays football twice a week and we eat good healthy food. We've been using our CBFM and pre-seed for three months now. Before we started TTC we did the Fertell home fertility test which showed that my egg quality and my DH sperm quality is very good. I'm 30 and DH is 36. This is our 7 month of TTC and no sign of a BFP - AF always turns up early or on time.

We are all being responsible by doing the right things to improve are TTC chances and it will happen to us all one day - its just a shame we have to wait.

Slip

I know how you feel. We've been trying for over a year and don't drink, smoke, etc.... but taking folic acid, "doing it" at the right times, etc.. but still nothing. I have had two 21 day blood tests which said i wasn't ovulating. Just praying every month that this is the time.
Try and keep positive as it is still early days for you.
Fingers crossed it will happen soon.
Hugs and kisses
xxx

miel

thank you slip ;omi;missmonty;niknaknat and vickie !!! i do take vitamins as well ...we have to be soooo patience in the ttc game!!!

Rumpskin

Your time will come lovely xxx

candice123

Oh meil, I feel much the same way too!! I am the most impatient person in the world, then I look at other ppls stories on here and feel guilty for feeling that way!! Dunno what to do or think sometimes, but I am sure that it will all happen in good time for all of us. Good luck, Candice xx

miel

Candice, do you think it's harder to not know when we will get the bfp or if we did know and it will like 10 months from now or 2 years?
would you prefer to know or not ? ( if you had a choice ? )

me i think ...well let see a guaranty that one day i will get pg ? no matter how long it take ..or not knowing at all ? i guess i prefer not knowing...