I was just lurking in the pregnancy forums, it feels like I'll never get there! I'm just always going to be here, talking about bleeding, cm, cervix position, ovulation, poas, symptom spotting and crying about AF. I want to be there, throwing up, picking names, shopping for baby stuff, guessing gender and crying because i have crazy cravings.

don't get me wrong, I love you ladies, and I'll still post here long after my bfp. I just feel like that'll never happen.

and OH is broken this month so I have to wait till next month, and if it doesn't happen then, I'll have to wait 4 more months!

this is so much harder than I was told in sex ed.

Oh hon, you will get there. You seem like such a positive and cool girl from the little we have chatted on other threads. I think what you are feeling is very human, I think it would almost be strange to think otherwise. they say it really happens when you least expect it. Maybe now that your feeling a little defeated, it will happen very soon.
Your day is coming and look forward to you posting your BFP for all of us to see!
xo

just wanted to send you hugs xx

oh bless you, I felt exactly the same the other day. big hugs for you hope your man is mended really soon and you can get bd again.

Jo x

i am feeling the same! though af hasnt got me yet i think shes definately coming! and i'm in a similar situation if dont get bfp this month im out for december bcos oh is away and i might even miss jan cycle too if he gets delayed i have a wedding to think about so can't be pg and its getting closer and closer!!

Theres a part of me deep down that feels the same. But in reality I try to ignore it. I know one day my day will come and so will yours aiko!

And like I said in the other thread, hes broken now, but when hes fixed he will have some mighty little swimmers! I wouldnt be surprised if you got twins out of it! Your BFP is coming!

i feel the same at the mo........ i really dont think that it is going to happen this month and i havent even got to ovulation day yet.... i just have a feeling.

Its so hard to feel positive all the time plus a month is the longest time when your wishing to get to the other end of it..... we've just got to cheer each other up.

bigs hugs x

Please dont hate me for saying this.. I speak for myself more than anyone..

BUT..

I feel like sites like these make us more anxious and overly hopeful for a bfp and when it doesnt happen, it hurts more because we have to go through another month of waiting and trying and calculating and BDing (thats not bad at all lol) and watching others get their BFP's.

Dont get me wrong, I absolutely LOVE the support on this site and the information I am getting is great and believe me when I say I am addicted to this site and come back to it all day from my phone and this is only the 1st week Ive been here! But last night I had to photograph a show. So from about 4pm till 10:30pm I was occupied and not thinking about O'ing or BFP's or Prenatal Vitamins or any of that. (except twice.. there were 2 pregnant people there that I noticed) but other than that, the distraction was nice =)

I say hobbies are in order to keep the stress down and keep us distracted from TTC for a while. My personal favorite.. Crafting! www.craftster.org is awesome if you check out the community there. They even have a section under "occasions and holidays" for "baby showers and gifts for new babies" if you cant resist lol!

I really hope this didnt come off as negative.. Just my opinion! Good Luck!!

I truly believe we will all get there one day, one way or another.

We WILL be a mother! ;-) I ttc with my ex 3yrs and got nowhere and iv been ttc with my fiance for 4 cycles up to now, going onto 5 if af shows tomorrow.

Never lose hope and just know that when we do eventually have our babies that we will adore them all the more for the time we have had to wait xxx

i feel that way sometimes. @ Kita I actually think sites like this help me. At least I do not feel so alone, there is no one here I can talk to about TTC I mean i talk to my OH and my teenage daughters but that is pretty much it lol and i know they get bored.. I know OH is always willing to do his part but i am pretty sure when i talk about ttc all he hears is blah blah blah wanna