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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:23 AM
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| | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Leavenworth, Kansas
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| Done TTC
Im dont TTC coz i realized that my husband is not the man I should have a child with. Our anniversary was Monday and he beat me... I know this is Tmi but I want to talk to someone about it  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:26 AM
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| | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Norwich, United Kingdom
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| Oh my god..i'm so sorry  Have you spoken to any close friends or family members about it? We're all here for you here if you need to chat.. 
He definitely is not the man to have your children with if he's going to disrespect you like that...Although i've never been in the situation myself so i cant even imagine how you're feeling right now...but he has no right to treat you like that
Stay strong hun, i'm sorry xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:27 AM
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| | Praying for a sticky Bean Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arkansas, USA
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|  aw sweetie I am so very sorry to hear that, please get out of that situation asap. you deserve better than that. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:30 AM
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| | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Leavenworth, Kansas
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| MissMaternal I have talked to my mom and a few friends, and it helps talking to people so much. Im not able to leave, I have no money and no way of getting any. Im trying to figure it out.
wanting1more, thank you I know and that is what everyone is telling me | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:31 AM
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| | Just One More...Please! BnB Addict
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| Yep get out asap! Been there done that and its not a happy ending hun! Ive also have two kids by my ex and although they are pretty well balanced and do well in all areas, I can still see that it hurts them and stuffs them around being torn between the two of us. You deserve so much better than that, dont wait 13 years like I did! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:36 AM
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| | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Leavenworth, Kansas
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| WannaB
I know and I don't want to wait long to get out either but I don't have a job and I don't have any money or a way to get any money. I have now one that can help me and I'm stuck. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:43 AM
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| | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
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| Oh, I'm so sorry. That's dreadful. I don't really know what to say that can help but I hope you find a way. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 00:46 AM
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| | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Leavenworth, Kansas
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| Dee7509,
thank you anything helps... | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 01:14 AM
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| | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Maryland, USA
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| There should be a domestic violence shelter somewhere near you. If you can get to them, they'll help you get a job and start over.
Please call
The Kansas Crisis Hotline
1-888-END ABUSE
(1-888-363-2287) is a toll-free, 24-hour statewide crisis hotline developed to link victims of domestic violence and sexual assault to crisis programs across Kansas. The Hotline offers:
* Confidential, non-judgemental support
* Crisis intervention to help you identify problems and possible solutions, including safety plans for emergencies
* Referral to community programs or women's shelters for long term support
* Information about domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, and intervention programs
Please call and find out what resources are available to you. You are not alone and there is a way out. That is why these programs exist - to help people get out of bad situations. You do not deserve abuse and there is a way out. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 18th, 2009, 01:51 AM
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| | 1st trimester after 2 MC Active BnB Member
Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Boston, Massachusetts
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| I'm so sorry to hear of your situation.
Have you considered going back to college? When I was in school, I was able to get student loans to help pay for living expenses. That way, you'd be building a life forward and you would be able to support yourself right now. | | | | Status: Offline
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