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tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:23 PM

Im dont TTC coz i realized that my husband is not the man I should have a child with. Our anniversary was Monday and he beat me... I know this is Tmi but I want to talk to someone about it

MissMaternal · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:26 PM

Oh my god..i'm so sorry

Have you spoken to any close friends or family members about it? We're all here for you here if you need to chat..

He definitely is not the man to have your children with if he's going to disrespect you like that...Although i've never been in the situation myself so i cant even imagine how you're feeling right now...but he has no right to treat you like that

Stay strong hun, i'm sorry

xx

wanting1more · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:27 PM

aw sweetie I am so very sorry to hear that, please get out of that situation asap. you deserve better than that.

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:30 PM

MissMaternal I have talked to my mom and a few friends, and it helps talking to people so much. Im not able to leave, I have no money and no way of getting any. Im trying to figure it out.

wanting1more, thank you I know and that is what everyone is telling me

WannaB · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:31 PM

Yep get out asap! Been there done that and its not a happy ending hun!

Ive also have two kids by my ex and although they are pretty well balanced and do well in all areas, I can still see that it hurts them and stuffs them around being torn between the two of us. You deserve so much better than that, dont wait 13 years like I did!

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:36 PM

WannaB

I know and I don't want to wait long to get out either but I don't have a job and I don't have any money or a way to get any money. I have now one that can help me and I'm stuck.

Dee7509 · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:43 PM

Oh, I'm so sorry. That's dreadful. I don't really know what to say that can help but I hope you find a way.

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 19:46 PM

Dee7509,

thank you anything helps...

Nimyra · Nov 17th, 2009, 20:14 PM

There should be a domestic violence shelter somewhere near you. If you can get to them, they'll help you get a job and start over.

Please call
The Kansas Crisis Hotline
1-888-END ABUSE
(1-888-363-2287) is a toll-free, 24-hour statewide crisis hotline developed to link victims of domestic violence and sexual assault to crisis programs across Kansas. The Hotline offers:

* Confidential, non-judgemental support
* Crisis intervention to help you identify problems and possible solutions, including safety plans for emergencies
* Referral to community programs or women's shelters for long term support
* Information about domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, and intervention programs

Please call and find out what resources are available to you. You are not alone and there is a way out. That is why these programs exist - to help people get out of bad situations. You do not deserve abuse and there is a way out.

hibiscus07 · Nov 17th, 2009, 20:51 PM

I'm so sorry to hear of your situation.

Have you considered going back to college? When I was in school, I was able to get student loans to help pay for living expenses. That way, you'd be building a life forward and you would be able to support yourself right now.

Nov 17th, 2009, 19:23 PM	#1
tryingfor#1 AutoSignup (SAAB) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 456	Done TTC Im dont TTC coz i realized that my husband is not the man I should have a child with. Our anniversary was Monday and he beat me... I know this is Tmi but I want to talk to someone about it

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:26 PM	#2
MissMaternal Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Norwich, United Kingdom Posts: 1,308	Oh my god..i'm so sorry Have you spoken to any close friends or family members about it? We're all here for you here if you need to chat.. He definitely is not the man to have your children with if he's going to disrespect you like that...Although i've never been in the situation myself so i cant even imagine how you're feeling right now...but he has no right to treat you like that Stay strong hun, i'm sorry xx

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:27 PM	#3
wanting1more Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arkansas, USA Posts: 349	aw sweetie I am so very sorry to hear that, please get out of that situation asap. you deserve better than that.

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:30 PM	#4
tryingfor#1 AutoSignup (SAAB) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 456	MissMaternal I have talked to my mom and a few friends, and it helps talking to people so much. Im not able to leave, I have no money and no way of getting any. Im trying to figure it out. wanting1more, thank you I know and that is what everyone is telling me

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:31 PM	#5
WannaB Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 5,415	Yep get out asap! Been there done that and its not a happy ending hun! Ive also have two kids by my ex and although they are pretty well balanced and do well in all areas, I can still see that it hurts them and stuffs them around being torn between the two of us. You deserve so much better than that, dont wait 13 years like I did!

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:36 PM	#6
tryingfor#1 AutoSignup (SAAB) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 456	WannaB I know and I don't want to wait long to get out either but I don't have a job and I don't have any money or a way to get any money. I have now one that can help me and I'm stuck.

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:43 PM	#7
Dee7509 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 2,688	Oh, I'm so sorry. That's dreadful. I don't really know what to say that can help but I hope you find a way.

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Nov 17th, 2009, 19:46 PM	#8
tryingfor#1 AutoSignup (SAAB) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 456	Dee7509, thank you anything helps...

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Nov 17th, 2009, 20:14 PM	#9
Nimyra Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 1,547	There should be a domestic violence shelter somewhere near you. If you can get to them, they'll help you get a job and start over. Please call The Kansas Crisis Hotline 1-888-END ABUSE (1-888-363-2287) is a toll-free, 24-hour statewide crisis hotline developed to link victims of domestic violence and sexual assault to crisis programs across Kansas. The Hotline offers: * Confidential, non-judgemental support * Crisis intervention to help you identify problems and possible solutions, including safety plans for emergencies * Referral to community programs or women's shelters for long term support * Information about domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, and intervention programs Please call and find out what resources are available to you. You are not alone and there is a way out. That is why these programs exist - to help people get out of bad situations. You do not deserve abuse and there is a way out.

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Nov 17th, 2009, 20:51 PM	#10
hibiscus07 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 890	I'm so sorry to hear of your situation. Have you considered going back to college? When I was in school, I was able to get student loans to help pay for living expenses. That way, you'd be building a life forward and you would be able to support yourself right now.

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