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Joyzerelly · Nov 17th, 2009, 21:01 PM

Aww, bless you missy. I second the advice of all the ladies here to get out. He doesn't deserve you, but more importantly, you deserve a lot better. Don't listen to his excuses, forget second chances. Leave him asap. The Kansas helpline looks like a very good idea. Could you stay with your mum for a little while? Good luck.

wish2bmama · Nov 17th, 2009, 21:18 PM

Aw hun, I'm so sorry.

The ladies are right, you need to get out asap. Those shelters are wonderful, or maybe stay with a friend or family member until you get a job? I would call the police if he does it again. You don't have to stand for that. I wish you all the best hun.

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 22:24 PM

Em_Maryland

I have already been once, and I don't want to go back...

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 22:26 PM

hibiscus07

Im in college now but I dont know how to get money for living expenses. Im getting money in Dec. but I dont know how much and how far it will get me.

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 22:28 PM

Joyzerelly
My mom has offered me to stay with her again. but my younger brother is there and I dont want to deal with all the hurt that i may cause my mom wen she sees me. I dont want to do that.

tryingfor#1 · Nov 17th, 2009, 22:29 PM

wish2bmama
I dont want to call the cops coz I dont want to go to jail to coz if he hits me i will hit him back.

happyandy · Nov 17th, 2009, 23:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Em_Maryland

There should be a domestic violence shelter somewhere near you. If you can get to them, they'll help you get a job and start over.

Please call
The Kansas Crisis Hotline
1-888-END ABUSE
(1-888-363-2287) is a toll-free, 24-hour statewide crisis hotline developed to link victims of domestic violence and sexual assault to crisis programs across Kansas. The Hotline offers:

* Confidential, non-judgemental support
* Crisis intervention to help you identify problems and possible solutions, including safety plans for emergencies
* Referral to community programs or women's shelters for long term support
* Information about domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, and intervention programs

Please call and find out what resources are available to you. You are not alone and there is a way out. That is why these programs exist - to help people get out of bad situations. You do not deserve abuse and there is a way out.

This x100000!!!

Please call this number. YOU DO NOT NEED MONEY. They will take you on FREE OF CHARGE. Also, women's shelter locations are almost always located in a confidential area, so your husband would not be able to find you. Please, please, please call this number and get help. Physical abuse does not end. He will do this again. It is a cycle that almost never can be broken. Please get help.

somedaymama · Nov 17th, 2009, 23:37 PM

tryingfor#1, please get out of there. Look for a domestic violence shelter, go to your mom's, whatever you have to do, you need to go. I am anything but an advocate for divorce, but if he hit you once he will do it again, and no one deserves to stay in that.

You said you don't want him to go to jail, but think about it. It's not your fault. If he goes to jail, it's because of what HE did, not you. Please consider filing a police report, you can do it now even though it's a few days later.

Waiting2bMommy · Nov 17th, 2009, 23:51 PM

Wow, that is horrible, you definately need to get out. I hope it all works out for you.

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Joyzerelly Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Glorious England Posts: 1,492	Aww, bless you missy. I second the advice of all the ladies here to get out. He doesn't deserve you, but more importantly, you deserve a lot better. Don't listen to his excuses, forget second chances. Leave him asap. The Kansas helpline looks like a very good idea. Could you stay with your mum for a little while? Good luck.

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wish2bmama Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2,364	Aw hun, I'm so sorry. The ladies are right, you need to get out asap. Those shelters are wonderful, or maybe stay with a friend or family member until you get a job? I would call the police if he does it again. You don't have to stand for that. I wish you all the best hun.

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tryingfor#1 AutoSignup (SAAB) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 456	wish2bmama I dont want to call the cops coz I dont want to go to jail to coz if he hits me i will hit him back.

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somedaymama Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Illinois Posts: 2,465	tryingfor#1, please get out of there. Look for a domestic violence shelter, go to your mom's, whatever you have to do, you need to go. I am anything but an advocate for divorce, but if he hit you once he will do it again, and no one deserves to stay in that. You said you don't want him to go to jail, but think about it. It's not your fault. If he goes to jail, it's because of what HE did, not you. Please consider filing a police report, you can do it now even though it's a few days later.

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