I agree that the best course of action would be to write it all down. I would make a list of questions in bullet point form and keep the questions short and to the point.
Read through the list and fine tune it before going to visit your doctor or get a friend to read over them to make sure they are void of too much emotion.
You mention depression and medication, so it may be worth asking about the meds you are on and the effect they could possibly have on ttc and/or the way they make you feel about your previous loss.
Do you have a counsellor, because it could be worth your while speaking to someone outside the doctors office. I may be speaking out of line here, but it's difficult to comment and advise when you don't know someone, so apologies if this idea is not appropriate to you. Another idea may be to look for an advice service on line, which is totally confidential and you can get answers over the internet without making appointments and having to wait.
When I lost my mother, our counsellor in work told me that in his opinion it should take approximately 5 years to grieve for someone, so I can't see why this wouldn't apply to the loss of a pregnancy. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to go through the stresses of ttc and grieve a loss at the same time. My heart goes out to you and I wish you the strength to get through this difficult time and move forward.
Hope there is some help in my words.
i just dont want her to think that im being stupid. i havnet actually asked her before but everytime ive mentioned it to doctors before they have said its one of those things and i have time on my side....
for you.
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