faith_may

I already posted this, but because it got lost (Bloody Hell to the hackers) I will make it again, but this time I will make short.
We talked with DH and he told me he wants to wait a few months to go back TTC again if I don't get the BFP this month. He wants to see me happy again and not sad like he sees me when AF comes and when I get a bfn. So like I said before, I understand him and I actually agree.

Now the news, we talked today, and I told him that if I don't get a this month I want to wait 6 months, relax and maybe I will get a bfp during that time, I won't chart while I go TTC rest and I won't care when we DO have to make BD and when we shouldn't.
He's right I need to be who I was before TTC, I don't want to get lost on the way.

Vickie

I answered on your post yesterday but I'll answer again. I think it's a great idea to take a step back from TTC. Sometimes relaxing and not charting, etc. can give you better results. Plus you and DH will enjoy each other more

coccyx

Glad you had a talk about it. Extra stress is no good. Think its a good idea to go with the flow rather than making love at set times on certain days, even if it is only for a few months.

faith_may

Thanks girls

Kaelia67

Aww i'm glad you have both had a talk and reached a Decision. I did the very same thing myself a few months ago as TTC was becoming hard at the time. We did still ttc but i stopped with my obsession. It really does take over your whole life. Unfortunately i traded my ttc obsession for World of Warcraft and became obsessed with that
Sometimes we need to take a few step's back and relax. Hopefully it will happen for you when you are at your most relaxed. Enjoy eachother and you may still get a nice surprise. Good luck hun xxx

faith_may

Thanks

Rumpskin

Hello, this sounds like a great idea. I hope you get your BFP when you are both ready xxx

faith_may

Thanks