Well ladies it appears that I have a ectopic pregnancy. The technician looked at the scan and told me that the same sac was there from the last time but had not grown nor was there a baby in there. Then she looked over on my right ovary and noticed there was fluid there. So then she went and got my doctor and had her look at it and then my doctor told me to get dressed and come in her office. I was crying so bad. My husband didn't know what to think. I have never been called into a doctors office before. I knew it was bad. She came in and told me that I am either miscarrying or I have an ectopic pregnany. She said it looks like it is an ectopic though. She had me do my HCG levels again and if they are up way high then I will have to undergo surgery to remove the pregnancy and depending on the damage, possibly my tube and/or ovary. If they are low, then she will give me a shot to disolve the pregnancy. I am sad to know this because this means that my baby is there and I can't do anything to save it! So it kinda really sucks! Once we get through this we will start trying immediately.
I am glad to have all the support of all of you wonderful ladies. Last night I was having some major pain and some pretty heavy bleeding and clotting. So I hope if it has to be like this, that it will be the lesser of the two evils. I do not want to have to undergo surgery and take the chance of losing one of my tubes. Please keep us in you thoughts and prayers. Thank you all so much! God bless!
I am sorry u are going thru that.
Can I ask u something? I hope it's ok.
How come they told u it's ectopic and at the same time they can see a sac? I tell you this because in my last pregnancy the only thing they could see what an empty growing sac with no baby in it. This is called Blighted Ovum.
Anyway, I hope u overcome this tough time, we are here for you.
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awwe, hun, i'm so sorry to read this and i've been following this particular story of yours from the beginning. I hope everything works out for you and that once things settle down, you'll be able to concieve again and have a H&H 9 months [-o<
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so sorry to hear your news. I know there's nothing that I can say that will comfort you, but I'm thinking of you and we're all here if you want to talk huni xxxxxxxxx
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I am sorry u are going thru that.
Can I ask u something? I hope it's ok.
How come they told u it's ectopic and at the same time they can see a sac? I tell you this because in my last pregnancy the only thing they could see what an empty growing sac with no baby in it. This is called Blighted Ovum.
Anyway, I hope u overcome this tough time, we are here for you.
They saw a little sac which was pretty normal for the gestional age. But they saw the same thing with no change in size in my uterus. The reason they say ectopic is because of the fluid around my ovary. It suggests that there may be something there irritating the area. i.e. the pregnancy. I will find out today what my hcg level are and what to do from here. Like I said, if I have to miscarry I hope it is the natural way then to have to undergo surgery. I think I may have started the process But I will find out later today.
Thank you all for all of your support. God Bless you all!
I'm so sorry Anne, I was ecstactic for you when you announced your BFP and I am gutted for you that it has come to this
I don't really know what else to say other than I am thinking of you and will pray for you and your husband.
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But I will find out later today. 
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