jacky24

Thanks ladies, i had a talk to DH last night and he said, if i want to keep my sons ashes i should, no matter how long even if i never get rid of it
It is the only thing i trully have left of him, i never saw him or held him, so they need to let me be with his ashes.

DH decided last night im waiting for the to show up now, and 2nd round clomid 100mg, we will be Bding 24/7 till next should arive, was so funny as i said to him it wouldn't matter if we shipped a night to get rest, he replied but what if that would have been the night the eggie was ready. Bless his heart He wants a as much as i do.

Thanks gals hope you get your and loads of for all TTC...... Including some for me

Tishimouse

I say that this person is your MOTHER-IN-LAW and your husband should speak to her as she is his blood relative. He needs to tell her that you need to be left to deal with the matter of your sons ashes when you are ready.

If she has not experienced the same thing as you, then she quite frankly has no right to interfere. No doubt it is a terrible loss for all of you and you are doing the best you can. She is suffering a loss too and this must be her way of trying to cope with it. I am sure she doesn't mean any harm and it's important for you all to get on, so if it's possible try not to dwell on what she has said.

As for you not being able to conceive before his ashes are finally put somewhere special (if that's what you choose to do), well that's a load of sh*te (excuse me). Jiggery pokery and witchcraft comes to mind and who says so? Can you tell that made me mad. It is certainly something to consider, but a very personal decision and it should be the decision of his mummy and daddy. Lord have mercy on his little soul and I wish you continued strength in dealing with your tragic loss.

lillysmum

i think they only way that could affect your conception is if you were under high stress, which they seem to be doing more than you are.

I think you are such an amazing person, it must be so difficult loosing your child at that point in fact -at all and they should just be quiet, it's your life, your son, your business.

all the best to you hun x