wilbrabeany

I love my husband to bits and fancy his arse off. But since we've been TTC i have to admit i find myself having to work harder at sex. Dont get me wrong DH is very attentive and stuff but i have to get baby making out of my head.

Is anyone else finding it a bit weird. Sometimes i feel like saying just give me the sperm. Am i being horrible is it just getting to me. HHHHHHHeeeellllppppp

Jayne

LOL!! You're definitely not alone!! We used to go to bed and I'd be "Spermies!! Let me at 'em!"" I think you've got to laugh about it or else you end up getting totally stressed out and not having sex for fun.

GL!

wilbrabeany

This month i;d decided just bonk regular and forget about it, but it gets in your head doesn;t it...must bonk now fertile time etc etc. Yeah your right and we do have a laugh. I think as a woman its hard not to think too much. Blokes have it easy dont they...a world of black and white

tansey

I know what you mean but it's the other way round with us - I'm tiring him out. Although we're having loads of fun, I'm thinking I can't miss a chance to make a baby. I think we just have to relax some how. I remind myself that I love my OH loads so BD is an expression of this, it's fun and it's a very good exercise!

Samo

definitely try to make it fun because if it starts feeling like a chore...one or both of you will get out of the mood. try new things...i'm always asking DH things like 'is there anything you've been dying to try?' but i gotta admit, i have a rule that i have to be on my back at the "most crucial" time of the bonk

have fun and good luck to you girls

Mervs Mum

I went out and invested in lots of inexpensive, fancy, totally impractical lingerie! So when we were in the peak BDing time I kept pulling out another outfit to keep him interested and make it feel anything but boring!!!
The morning I got my BFP hubby said we should 'call it Primark after all that gear you bought!'

The Catster

Once I have O'd....I am totally less interested in using the bed for BD, rather zzzzzzzzzzzz....hehehe
(poor DH) lol

justme00

You are not alone. I get in moods like that. Last month I was all into it and now I feel so "blah" about the whole thing. Guys are definetly lucky because they just want it all the time no matter what!

LucyLou

Ah this all sounds so familiar.
Before hubby and i decided to try and have a baby, we used to have lots of fun in the sack, however after a year with still BFP it has most certainly become a chore, and we find ourselves forcing eachother to get in the mood!
And after ive O, we tend to lose interest althogether.

I like Mervs mum's idea with all the sexy undies, think i might give that a go!

**angel**