As some of you know oxsarahxo sadly lost her baby girl Jessica Charlotte Reay hours after giving birth. We are arranging a star to be named after Jessica and a lantern for her resting place from all of us. We also thought it would be nice to make a contribution to Sarah & Matt so they can use it towards flower arrangements, head stone or resting place arrangements. If you would like to contibute please PM me for details. Wobbles (oxsarahxo cannot see this message - Please do not discuss this on the forum) | Welcome to BabyandBump's Trying To Conceive Forum - Trying to conceive your first or doing it again? Share & seek advice through your TTC journey with others. This thread is called 'trying to conceive/orgasm' and is in our Trying To Conceive Forums section. | 
Mar 1st, 2008, 15:39 PM
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I am a new wife and my husband and I have decided to start trying for a baby. We are both Christians and we did wait til marriage to become intimate and it's been about 7 months and I have yet to expierence a orgasm. Will this cause issues for not conceiving. I read that a woman's uterus contracts with a orgasm which hels push the spermies along but is a orgasm necessary?
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | No it doesn't matter if you don't have an orgasm. Some women rarely if ever do and they still can get pregnant just fine. I don't think it really makes much of a difference. Good luck TTC.  |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Yes having an orgasm may help the sperm get there, but it is not necessary. Not trying to get in your business or anything, but have you tried anything to 'help' you get an orgasm? |
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| well were still learning different things. I was very shy in the beginining but becoming more open regarding my sexuality | | | | Status: Offline
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sorry I wasn't trying to be nosey, it's just that in the beginning with me and my husband I didn't get orgasms either and I wasn't fully enjoying it so I bought a "toy" it's called the silver bullet I think and I use it all the time! It's wonderful! haha  |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Totally with Britt on this one, get a little friend, it works wonders!! Many shops online will post in unmarked boxes so you don't have to feel embarassed for the mailman or neighbors to see. Like the other ladies say, it helps but is not necessary. |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Good advice from the girls above!! I found it very difficult to O (not ovulate on this occasion!) with out some 'help'.
I didn't when I conceived this time.
Good luck and enjoy perfecting your baby dance!
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| So it's common not to orgasm from intercourse? I watch regular movies and in some scenes it seems like the woman have orgasms. Maybe I just don't know about these things | | | | Status: Offline
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yes it's common for women not to have an orgasm on their own. Many women have to have extra stimulation to reach one. |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Even when I do have an orgasm I certainly dont look like the women in the movies!!!
If only!!! |
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