Mervs Mum

Dont feel stupid at all! We're all still learning.

**angel**

Kaelia67

Please don't feel stupid, i will let you into a little secret..i don't O during intercourse, i used to think there was something wrong with me, until i read it was common..i only manage O during foreplay.. yet have managed several successful pregnancies. Good luck hun xxx

LucyLou

Tara, you have nothing to apologise for or to feel stupid for.
At the end of the day we're all here for the same reasons and are here to help to reassure eachother.
Im sure you and your husband will enjoy discovering eachothers sexual interests, and hopefully conceive amongst all that fun!
All the best
x

justme00

Don't feel stupid. I didn't realize it was so difficult to O during penetration in the beginning too. What can help is kegal exercises (http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html ) and I bought this cheap little vibrating bullet online that works wonders (http://www.nawtythings.com/bullets.html )! The best combination in the world is a vibration on top of regular pentration. I now get multiple orgasms from it! It takes time though, I've been having sex for 5 yrs and only just started getting multiples a few years ago. It's all about knowing your body. The only time I have ever had an orgasm without vibration during sex was when I was on top and the clit rubbed against him the right way and that one shocked me!! I apologize if this was TMI!

Oh and to answer your other question I think the wetter you are the better teh environment for the sperm to swim up there!

_Alice_

Hi hun,
Welcome to B&B!

You don't have to have an orgasm to get pregnant, but it has been rumoured to help as the uterus "sucks up" the sperm. As for your worrying over not climaxing, i really wouldn't worry. Many women don't get an orgasm during penetrative sex. I've been active for 11 years and only orgasmed once during penetrative sex, the rest of the time, it normally happens during foreplay.

Please, try not to worry!

Enjoy your time TTC, i wish you all the luck in the world! x