HAYS

7months,and was off the pill a year prior to trying, and we werent using anything

wishes

im sorry hays... i think you should should talk to your doctor about how upset everythings making you. Im sure that if they knew how it was affecting you they might be able to do some extra tests. Ask them to check everything just to put your mind at rest.

OH's prob jut as confused and worried as you are. Try to lok after each other.

shoeshopper

like the others said go to and see your doc and tell him how much this is hurting you. maybe write everything down so you can tell him all the problesm and symptons, and ask him if OH diabetes could be a factor. you need to start getting some answers.

good luck.

Carolina

im sorry hays i know exactly how you feel!

Samo

lots of hugs hun. Definitely talk to your doctor, and if he/she isn't listening, find someone who will. I hope you figure out what's going on and hopefully it's nothing too serious.

Malingo

I really hope you get everything sorted and get that much deserved bfp soon! xxx

Franjipan

Hays im sorry you thiink af is coming. I know exactly how you are feeling as its awful not getting pregnant and wondering if everything is ok inside us, ive been thinking exactly the same thoughts as you, i get funny feelings down on my left had side and cant help but wonder if there something wrong with me but im determined to give it a couple more months before i go to docs and then it will have been a full 12 months ttc. Not sure how long youve been trying so maybe youve just had enough by now, sounds like it to me. Like Mervs mum said go back to docs if af comes and tell them exactly how you are feeling, its not right if its making you feel this unhappy. The men no matter how lovely they are (my hubbys fab but..) they dont fully understand. At the end of the day its our bodies that go through all the feelings so its different for them i guess. Fingers crossed witch wont turn up but if she does go see the doc. xxx

The Catster

U need to go to the Docs to get all those results explained anyway! U must must must go to the Docs and really lay it on thick (weep if u can) of how much it is getting to u...do not leave without feeling optimistic- write a list of what u want to bring up with the Doc, then u won't miss anything!!!

Also, maybe ur Hubby is right about u cumin on here....it might be winding u up more!? Maybe u shud give B&B a little break??? (sorry moderators but she aint happy)....

HAYS

yeh maybe, but i love talking to you girlies,and id miss it too much!
Im defo going to the docs,and i have done a list of what i want to say.

Af is pretty much here,lots of brown blood today so the full flow will be here tomorrow, not sure if to count today as CD1 tho? if so that would make me 3days early!!!shocking!never had a 25day cycle before
x

Mervs Mum

have you had two shorter cycles now bert? I wonder if you might need to assume a shorter one next cycle and start BDing earlier??
If its not full flow till tomorrow then count CD1 from then I reckon.
xxx