Pixie5120

ok, so i just found out that my friend and his girlfriend were pregnant but that last week she had an abortion. perfectly within her rights, her body, her baby, and tbh with you they are NOT ready for that. All thats fine, but WHY is it that they are blessed with a pregnancy they are trying to aviod, and we're trying and not getting anything. its not fair. here i am wanting a baby so much and theres them just getting one that they dont even want just like that. gah.

sorry, just needed to rant about that and i know you girls will understand why i feel how i do.

babezone

Hey yeah i no exactly what your on about i no a girl who did the same...its sods law....how long u been trying hun....hope we get our bfp soon x x x good luck xxx

Frankie

Awful aint it id rather have a child adopted than aborted!!! x

Samo

i'm sorry hun, it'll be our turn some day. I know how you feel, my really good friend has had multiple pegnancys over the years...all but one ending in abortion, and that is, of course, her choice, her body (just like you said). But I always think why is it so easy for her when she is trying hard to avoid it while i have been trying like heck and it seems no amount of unprotected BDing i do helps!

Just hope for the future, it'll be our turn some day

faith_may

I know it's hard, if you need talk let me know

Pixie5120

this is only our third month. but its still hard to wach that... fingers crossed next cycle for all of us

Arcanegirl

Sods law im afraid, its happened alot here aswell.

HAYS

its always the way hun,frustrates me too!!!
chin up xxxx

justme00

I know exactly how you feel. It is their right and I know it's not something thats easy for them to do but I always think "I'll take the child"! On a silly note though, your friend could make some good money in surrogacy if she gets pg so easy, hah!

alexx144

I'm totally in the same position as you.
A friend of mine might be pregnant with her SECOND unplanned baby... and yet i cant get pregnant with my first.

Life is unfair, isnt it??