Its been awhile since Ive posted on here. Been real busy with work and such.

Ive decided to take it easy, or at least try to. I think that stressing out will make the chances of concieving go down.

So my new attitude...if it happens it happens!

So far, we have BD's twice during my most fertile time. Once more tonight and hopefully I get my

But Im not allowing myself to stress out over it! if I get preggers this month...GREAT! If not, I guess it just wasnt meant to be this month ^_^

I do have a question though

Now this may sound stupid...but I have a weak bladder. I can never wait too long after BD'ing to go pee. Will this lessen my chances?

Thanks!

Ahh a girlie had the same type of question today, you can read the responses etc here:
Uti & Ttc

Lots of luck to you this month, and glad you are relaxing more .

Hey there-
I'd also suggest Instead Cups to keep the spermies close to the cervix. You can insert one right after BDing and then get right up w/o worries of losing too much

Never heard of them, what are Instead Cups?

I think she means the Keeper cup or Diva cups
http://www.divacup.com/
http://www.keeper.com/

instead cups are similar concept but different in that they are disposable

www.softcup.com

Thanks, Suz! ...Sorry I didn't get back online until now to reply. I haven't used Diva or Keeper cups, but I know you can find Insteads at Wal-mart/Target if you're in the US or online.

Good idea lovely. I didnt get too stressed this month but I was actively looking for signs that perhaps didnt exist.

Good luck with your TTC mission.

xx

I think if you can wait 15-20 minutes after BDing to use the washroom you should be fine. I always had the same problem

I agree, after 15-20 mins you should be okay, what falls out witll just be useless leftovers.