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Feb 22nd, 2008, 04:29 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I got so depressed today
Today the sister of one of my friends call me and told me that my friend (her sister),had another baby,I got depressed because this is baby nš5 she has and I also got depressed because the baby was born on February 2, I didn't even know that she was pregnant, that got me mad, becauase she didn't tell me. But right now what gets me mad and depressed is that she's 23 and already has 5 kids (she had twins the first time when she was 19, then had another baby at 21, another at 22 and now another at 23) it makes me feel sad because she has 5, not planned, she never tried to get pregnant, she just gets pregnant, and all I want is ONE, I don't ask for much. It's not fair, I know I haven't been trying much longer like many of you have, but it just gets me mad that she gets pregnant so fast and easy and I can't get pregnant  
My DH told me that I shouldn't call her, first because he knows I'm going to get even more depressed and mad, and second because she was suppose to be my friend and she didn't even call me to tell me she was pregnat and she didn't call me to tell me she had, yet, another baby.
I don't know what to think, I don't know what to do, I'm mad and depressed and sad. | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 05:05 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  Oh sweetheart. I'm not sure what you should do, I will leave that up to you, just wanted to offer some hugs |
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 05:14 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | lots of sweetie. take care of yourself. |
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 05:26 AM
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 11:42 AM
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 12:07 PM
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 14:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | sorry hun, thats abit harsh of your mate not to tell you, but please dont let it get you down,its hard but you have to have positive thinking
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 14:45 PM
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 14:47 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | stay strong.....
everyone around me seems to be having babies, several were 'unplanned' too....one friend even said to me the other day
- "have you thought about extending your family yet - getting pregnant really isn't as difficult as people say you know"
seeing ithers around me this last month has really tormented me, and made me cry atthe sllightest thing.....
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Feb 22nd, 2008, 15:15 PM
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